How To Get Your Girlfriend Back

If you are in the unfortunate position, like I was of having a girlfriend break up with you

, you are likely wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back. People tend to spend lots of time going over in their minds what they could have said or done differently. You may have called your ex girlfriend or texted her or you might even have emailed her.

Spending time in this way is usually counter-productive because it will be highly unlikely to get your ex girlfriend back and will just make you feel more depressed. Breakups happen for so many reasons that trying to identify the one thing that caused the rift so you can explain it all away in an email is almost impossible. Also contact with your ex in this manner can make you seem needy which is not exactly an attractive quality. So what should you do immediately following a breakup?

As difficult as this may sound to you at the moment, you need to forget all about the breakup, your ex girlfriend, everything. Channel your energy into other avenues. Learn to sail, hang out with your male friends, make new friends, play golf, anything provided you are not dwelling on the breakup. By interacting with people in a non romantic setting you will be both giving yourself a break from not thinking about the past but you will also be in the background expanding your social skills that will put you in a great position later to re-ignite things with your ex girlfriend.

Now how long you do this depends but I would say at least a month. After this time you will be in a much better frame of mind to decide how to proceed where your ex girlfriend is concerned.

You will be able to objectively answer the question of whether you actually do want to get back together. Before this time away from things you would never have been answer this question honestly. Perhaps you are ready to date other women. If you do still want to get back together then you can start to find out how she feels about you after this time apart.

If you do decide to reconnect with your ex then playing things cool and a little hard to get always helps. Do not under any circumstances revert back to your post-breakup behavior as this will unlikely meet with success. Make it clear that you are doing well on your own and this will cause her to really evaluate her feelings for you. This is where you will be able to clearly see whether a reconciliation is possible or not. Be careful not to read too much into every little thing. Take things very slowly, and learn to read the situation using your experience you have gained while apart. All of these things will put you in the best position and you will no longer be wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back, you will have got her back!

by: Patrick Attlee

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