Men always make the biggest mistakes when they are in a relationship with women
. They always post their masculinity even at a good working relationship. They never thought that their masculine thinking would ruin their relationship with women.
One particular masculine feature that they always have to post to women whom they are in a relationship with is fairness. They always weigh things over and over and when they think women are being unfair to them, they instantly wanted to give it justice.
But is this the right way to do it? Fairness in a relationship is good but at most times, men disregards the way this affects women and their relationship with men. Most men do not understand how women are selfish and self-centered.
But before coming up with a solution, it should be understood that fairness is just a thought of "men". Since the beginning, men are raised to take care of their wives and children. They are also made to be providers for them. Nowadays, fairness has evolved and men seek something from women to be able to be contented and feel loved too.
It should not be blamed at women for acting unfair. Women are used to be the ones receiving all graces and blessings from men. They are there only to be preys for men and they are good at tactical survivals, ensuring that they are fully supported and provided by their men.
In a way, when you posed this problem to women, they will think that you are tired of loving and supporting them. They will be even more unfair by finding someone who will support them better. They will think you do not have the power to provide for them anymore.
It is just right to ask for fairness but in a different kind of way. You should be able to make women understand that you are also seeking their love and support every now and then. You should be able to make them realize that you are also looking forward to women providing something for you in return. This way, women shall understand a change of need.
Communication is very essential especially for married couple. You should be able to talk this out seriously with your woman. Be able to make her realize that you also need something from her to be able to be appreciated and loved in return.