How To Please Teenagers

If you are a TV show fans, you must know that the teenagers are the most capricious in the world

, in most family drama, there is a cool teenager girls or boys, they seems to hate all the adults, and they will give a poker face when they talking with them. But at the next second, they laugh heavily to talk with her friends. If you have a teenage girl or boy, you must be interested in this topic.

Sara needs to take care of her niece Yuki for one month when her sister on her holiday. But her niece is about 14 years old and very rebel. At the first morning, Sara and Yuki had a dispute on the TV show. Sara likes to watch comedy situation, but Yuki wants to watch The Vampire Diaries, Sara felt very angry, she thinks her niece is selfish and never think about others. Sara operating a crafts shop on the internet, so at the day time, she is very busy to making handicrafts such as wooden embellishments, cheap scrapbook albums and packs the goods for customer. She hopes to watch some funny shows which can allow her to feel relax. But Yuki control the television every night. Besides, Yuki is a very fussy eater, she dont like eat meat, and even refuse to see meats on the table, but Sara love beef very much, so they always quarrel on the table. Yuki likes the Jazz music, so she always opens the stereo very very loudly, which makes Sara cant fall asleep. Sara thinks she has endured enough and she has tried her best to be nice to Yuki, but she heard Yuki still complain about her on the phone.

With these questions, Sara comes to consult the psychologist. The psychologist gives her five tips which she things very easy to do. The first tip is stops prating. Most parents like to criticize their children stand at their point of view and the words they said more than one times and even can be recited by their children. In fact, these words cannot help them but build a wall between parents and children.

The second tip is respecting them; dont use the paternalism when you talk with them. Exchange idea with them equally, if you want to enter their world, you need to know what they likes and dislikes. Dont judge their hobby unless their hobby is unhealthy. Learn to give them enough freedom; dont arrange anything for them unless they ask you to do.

The third tip is paying more attention on the family dinner; the research finds that a happy family can decrease the negative effects on the teenagers from the society.

The fourth tip, know more things about their friends, so that you will know why they has bad mood and give the right suggestions when they have problems with their friends.

The fifth tip is cultivating one common hobby with them, so that you have many chances to communicate with each other.

After consulting the doctor, Sara adjust her attitude to Yuki, she tried to talk more interesting things with Yuki, and she finds that Yuki begin to share her funny things with her and even tells more private things with her. As Yuki has known how tired Saras work is, she begins to help her to do some house works. Sara invites many of Yukis friends to her house which makes Yuki very happy. At dinner, Sara prepares many kinds of meats which are very popular among Yukis friends. Since that day, Yuki dont refuse to see meat any more. At Saras birthday, Yuki giving her a wool corn scarf which made by herself. They are now become the best friend. If you think the five tips are useful, you should have a try.

by: AmandaWong

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