How To Properly Turn Down A Nice Guy Without Hurting Him So Much

Almost all men agree, no matter what they say and how you say it

, the earlier you turn his offer down, the better. You can be sure when you take him down; he will get over it no matter what. If he has the confidence to ask you out, he also has the courage to move on.

For so lots of ladies, rebuffing that lovely man with the sex appeal of a warthog is the social equivalent of sticking pins under your fingernails. Why agree to see a man you don't like? "I don't need to hurt his feelings," a role statement. So is it cowardice or compassion that makes saying no so hard?

That said, faced with rejection, lots of men prefer a neatly wrapped white deceive blunt reality. But is not that deception? Who benefits when you tell a man you don't find him beautiful? You don't need to say it & they definitely doesn't need to listen to it.

So what do men need to listen to, if not yes? "I have a guy" takes top marks in the lie department. "When a woman tells me they have a man I think, 'Well, if they weren't attached she'd jump at the chance,'" says Louis, 26, a solicitor. But what if the man in query knows you are single? Try, "I'm sorry, I am so brilliantly busy." However, don't elaborate with something like, "I must get home to watch the paint peel." They may volley back with, "Well, that should not take long. Let's meet for coffee later."

You could also make it your personal owner, never ever to give out your phone number. If a man asks, reply politely with, "I'm sorry; I don't give out my phone number." If they persist, say, "Why don't I take your number?" You are saying you'll take it. You are not saying you'll use it.

Above all, the key to brushing off a man nicely is that - to be lovely. "I'm busy" can sound either honest or agitated, depending on your tone & expression. Following tips will certainly help you:

First, look relaxed, even if you are stunned. Smirk & make eye contact. Second, keep your voice calm & say something such as, "Thanks, I am flattered, but I am busy." Don't speak quickly or you'll look awkward. Third, reply with a downward inflection at the finish of your sentence, while making eye contact. A dip in your voice when you say the word "busy" connotes authority & lets him know you mean it. Your smirk, however, shows him you mean it in a no-hard-feelings way.

by: Michael SeoVida Francis

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