How To Receive A Massage For Women, Men And Couples At Your Doorstep?

HOW TO RECEIVE A MASSAGE For women, men and Couples

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Because massage is not a common part of our contemporary cultural experience, many people do not get the most out of massage.

You need to be nude. Once you get use to it you will feel very comfortable. Clothing gets in the way of the most pleasant sensation of total wholeness and connectedness of your body. In our culture with its preoccupation with sex and discomfort with nudity, in professional massage you normally will be

covered by a sheet or a towel will hide those "dirty sexual" parts of our body.

This need of course is due to sexual immaturity as a culture and the fact so many confuse nudity and touch with sex. Normally only the areas being massaged will be uncovered.

The recipient's only job is to relax as completely as possible. Breathe deeply and regularly, allow the body and its parts to sink into the table; as the therapist's bands locates areas of tension, consciously try to let go and release these tense areas.

Talk for the most part is distracting. Good massage requires concentration on the part of the therapist. Great massage is the result of good "energy" between therapist and recipient.

However, feel free to give feedback if any manipulation is uncomfortable or if you would like something done longer or differently. It's you who've come to this encounter to feel good. Let the therapist know if you are very ticklish. Strokes can be varied. Normally this is not a problem unless you are very ticklish.

Just lie there. Allow the therapist to move your limbs into whatever position is required. Be a rag doll. Don't try to be helpful. Simply receive. The therapist is a trained professional who can be trusted to take

good care of your body.

If emotions surface, do not be afraid to give them expression. The body is the seat of emotions. Sometimes during massage these emotions will come up and it is a great benefit if these can be let go of and worked through. Many people unaccustomed to such tender physical caring may express their emotion by crying - don't be embarrassed you will be accepted and understood.

Also be aware that the body holds memories of sexual abuse.

I have worked on sexual abuse victims in replacing bad memories in the body with loving good feelings.

For example, in one case a woman couldn't help but cry when I touched her at a certain point on her neckwhich was where she was hit by a gun butt while her father was raping her. The body does hold these emotions within and they need to be released and lovingly replaced with good feelings. At the very least, don't be afraid to sigh with relaxation or hum with pleasure.

Close your eyes. See with your sense of touch. Feel your body both inside and out. Closing one's eyes in the massage experience tends to being one's center of energy out of the head and into the body.

Raghuram is a practicing professional massage therapist for women, men and couples in Chennai. He can be reached at raguram.chennai@gmail.com for doorstep service appointments.

Enjoy!

by: Raghu Ram

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