How To Succeed In Your Life : 21 Invaluable Tips
Read 2nd part here:
Read 2nd part here:
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT FOR A BETTER WORLD (2)
In the 2nd part of this tetralogy we discussed about self development.
2nd part was devoted to the creation of a better me.
Men, however, dont live alone. They are not isolated islands scattered in the infinity of the oceans. They are ships which meet every day with each other during their route.
Success and fulfillment cannot be conquered without cooperation and assistance from other people.
In this part we will study the skills we should develop in order to maximize the profits from our relationships with other people.
1. Always seek mutual benefit. Relations should be balanced, otherwise they are doomed to failure.
2. We live in an era of extreme specialization. Everybody is an expert in his domain. Believe in the value of cooperation.
3. Always try to walk for a while in the others shoes!
4. Treat other people as you would like to be treated by them!
5. Learn to communicate more effectively!
* Use a clear language without jargon and unnecessary embroidery.
* Listen with your heart and soul.
* While discussing, dont let your mind fly elsewhere.
6. If somebody asks for your help, give it liberally without second thought. You will take it back with a high dividend.
7. Try to avoid people with a negative attitude. Your dreams and expectations will be in danger. Try to associate with positive people who could be sources of inspiration for you.
8. Be consistent with your promises and obligations.
9. Try to elicit from the others their best self.
10. Never show a critical attitude towards personalities. Just judge actions and behaviours.
11. Learn to forgive and you will be forgiven.
12. Show generosity! Take the necessary steps to support a relation even if you need to make some sacrifice!
13. People with high emotional quotient will manage to control their negative feelings.
14. If you can intervene and conciliate two conflicting parts, you will grant a great service to society.
15. You are noble-minded if you can acknowledge your mistakes and ask humbly for forgiveness.
16. Its acceptable to influence other people in a positive way but its morally punishable to manipulate them.
17. Set right and realistic expectations for your relationships. Thus, you will avoid painful disappointments and loss of valuable time.
18. Many people hide inside them pearls of divine beauty. Can you become a pearl diver?
19. You cannot always be the good guy. Sometimes you will need to say NO. Just do it with respect for the other peoples feelings.
20. Although you may be the best of the best, there will always exist people that will defame and dispraise you! This shouldnt drive you to despair because its a part of the game!
21. Try to balance between your individuality and team spirit. Sometimes you will have to submit. At times you will need to step ahead and become a beacon for the others!
Chris Strogilis
Civ. Eng. MBA DipM
by: Chris Strogilis
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