How To Use The "Cold Read" Tactic To Approach And Flirt With Women
How To Use The "Cold Read" Tactic To Approach And Flirt With Women
Throughout my years as a dating instructor, I've showed countless of men how to approach women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been exceedingly successful. I've seen shy guys who were scared to walk up to girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet girls all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
I have actually watched incredibly shy students of mine, who were previously too nervous to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach fearless approach experts" who were able to meet new girls every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and continually obtain digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.
But a guy's level of self-confidence can take a significant hit -- and that dreaded "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the task of approaching an extremely gorgeous girl.I'm not talking about an ordinary girl here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of stunner who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the vicinity to stop and look.
So is there a way to heighten your likelihood of great results with this kind of female? The answer to this, actually, is not that complicated: you use the same approach strategies that I suggest you use with any female, but after you use one of my "transition" tactics to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.
What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very dominant tactics that you should use when you flirt with women. Essentially, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."
For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that instill a very important idea in their subconscious: that you are NOT an ordinary guy who is bowled over and dumbfounded by how gorgeous she may be.
If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not hateful -- you're framing the conversation as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which encourages her to feel the same way with you. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a scorching-hot girl, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.
This is the opposite of how most dudes behave around a super hot girl. The typical guy can't even carry on a fun, compelling conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing!
As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a girl about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.
Effectively using a Cold Read makes you look unbelievably perceptive and it instantly creates a bond between you and the woman. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a super hot girl at the club, she's going to nod her head and agree with your appraisal .
So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to begin the conversation -- and there are many of of these in my book -- you'll use a Transition tactic to move things onto the right topic. Then, you can make use of Teases and Cold Reads:
Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the subject and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)
And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most guys get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you really are."
(This Cold Read works especially well with fine-looking females, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and would like to be recognized for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)
Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. Every time you bring together these techniques with other effective conversational moves, you have the recipe for a super-fun conversation that will set off all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go.
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