How To Win Back My Ex Quickly: Build Bridges And Reconnect
How To Win Back My Ex Quickly: Build Bridges And Reconnect
Somewhere in your relationship both you and your ex started to drift apart. For any relationship to work both partners need to understand the other person. The problem is men and women see things very differently. Even a conversation between the two of you will be viewed differently. If you look back and analyze why you broke up, and there is normally a reason to be found that will have nothing to do with the actual argument that ended the relationship you then have to work out a solution.
Men and women will approach the problem differently and their solutions will therefore be different. Here is the main tip, to get it right you have to approach the solution from their point of view. If you do that, you are half way there.
Look at the problem and think about how the situation could have affected them not you. For example most men might think that anything they said in the heat of the moment should be easily dismissed because they did not really mean it. However women would not agree.
Because women place great importance on words and use words to solve problems they need to be reassured with words. They need to hear or read an apology, they want to discuss the problem and work out a solution before they are willing to move forward.
Men are more action orientated and prefer that the women identify the problem, take action to fix it and then they will happily move forward without a long conversation.
This is why you need to understand where they are coming from before you will come up with a solution you are both will be happy with.
Winning back your ex is going to be made much easier if you can get into your partners head. Fortunately you know your ex and to make a start in the right direction men, remember that words are important and an apology is a great starting point and ladies take action and show your ex that you will do what it takes to get the relationship working again.
