How To Win Him Back, Even If You Messed Up

In almost all personal relationships, it is most likely that both partners have made mistakes

, been thoughtless, or got their buttons pushed and reacted badly. It is rarely all one person's fault.

Even the best relationship is made of two imperfect people, so as long as these things don't happen all that often and don't get blown out of proportion, most relationships can weather the occasional disruption.

But when the mistakes are really dramatic or too frequent, the relationship can be put at risk leading to a break up. If people could learn how to better communicate with each other, to learn to share their concerns with calm and respect, to look for ways to resolve the issues instead of tossing blame, a lot more relationships could be saved.

What if you have recently broken up and you know it was primarily your fault? Now, you must wonder, how to get him back?

Regardless of how much you feel your ex contributed to the break up, you need to take responsibility for making amends for your part in the breakup. A heart-felt apology is a start to healing the rift that you have caused. But it will take more than that if you want to get your man back and repair your relationship.

We all make mistakes but what really separates the "women from the girls" is what you do after the mistake has been made. You can't undo your mistakes, but you can make every effort to accept responsibility for your part and repair the damage, and that can only help to win him back.

Perhaps these suggestions will help you to make the right decisions and create the right environment for getting back together. Try and approach the task of getting your ex back with an inner strength and a positive attitude

Spend some time reflecting on what happened. Examine what was going on that led to do what you did, especially if the mistake was out of character for you. You might learn something interesting about yourself, and realize that something prior to the break up "pushed a button" that caused you to react as you did. Talking this through may be all it takes to win him back. Couples can use blow ups as opportunities to learn more about each other and actually grow closer.

Forgive yourself. Even if your man forgives you, it will eat away at you if you don't forgive yourself. And if you aren't able to get back together, you still have to live with yourself.

If you look deeply at yourself and see that you have a regular pattern of acting jealous, petty, or selfish, you will need to work on these aspects of yourself and that will take time. But if your boyfriend sees that you are taking active steps to working on yourself, that might be enough to at least get a repair in the relationship started.

I hope these tips on how to get back with ex boyfriend or husband after you've messed up have been helpful.

by: Deane Alban

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