Cumming to fast during sex was a curse to me for many years, sometimes it was over in seconds on a "good" night i would last a whole minute. I needed to stop cumming fast or i would lose my second wife. Squeeze! This is where you stop when you feel the urge to ejaculate and squeeze the tip of your penis with your finger and thumb untill the feeling passes, it does delay ejaculation a little but it is such a turn off to your lover when you pull out and start squeezing. Sure she will appear sympathetic, but you can tell what she really thinks. Take Control Now At PREJACULATION. Distraction! With this method to help you not to cum fast you are supposed to think about non sexual things like soccer or horses, you get the picture. This is a no go it just does not work at all, in fact one time i got so carried away with my thoughts that my ex said "are you thinking about another woman?" Different Positions! Now this one had potential and really does help you not to cum fast. For example if you enter from behind (doggy) you will cum very fast indeed , whereas if you get your lover on her back (missionary) you will last much longer. I am happy to say that my problems with cumming fast during sexare long gone thanks to the info at prejaculation. As many as 65% of the male population have at some time in their lives had trouble with cumming fast during sex and want to delay ejaculation. So you are not alone. But don't worry, there are lot's of ways to get rid of this problem. Don't get me wrong i have the odd blip,but 99% of the time i last at least 30 minutes, i no longer cum fast thanks to PREJACULATION. About the Author: