How can I get my ex back: Deliver The One Thing They Are Waiting For
How can I get my ex back: Deliver The One Thing They Are Waiting For
Although there are lots of so called secret ways to get your ex back, the only way that convinces your ex that you are genuine is that old fashioned apology. Both men and women have trouble letting go of how they are feeling without an apology.
For an apology to be accepted it must be more than a mumbled telephone message.
First do not include any excuses. Your ex will not appreciate any excuse for something you did. It tells them that it could all happen again, whenever something else goes wrong for you.
Secondly do not lay blame. If you start blaming them, you can hardly call it an apology. You must accept responsibility for your part in what went wrong.
The first part of an apology is for it to be sincere. Anything less is a waste of time. If you not able to be sincere then it really is a not worth doing. Your ex is going to appreciate the effort you put in and you will be pleasantly surprised by their reaction.
Identify in your apology exactly what you are apologizing for. This must relate to a specific problem you and your ex were having. A general apology does not go far enough and will not be so well received.
Include any solutions you have worked out, so that the same problems will not keep reoccurring. An apology without solutions will not convince your ex that anything has really changed. They are looking for ways to not get back together; you have to convince them that things are going to get better.
The next challenge is how you deliver the apology. It can be difficult if your ex is not taking your calls or opening your emails.
One method that your ex will take notice of is to write a handwritten letter and post it 1st class mail to their home.
Curiosity will get the letter opened and in their own time they can read and if necessary reread the letter. This will give them an opening to contact you.
