1. Teach yourself to delay ejaculation by using the squeeze. This simple technique merely involves pleasuring yourself until you are about to ejaculate then quickly squeezing your penis with your thumb and finger right at it's tip. Hold tight for a minute and then continue, you will soon notice that you will be capable of stopping ejaculation without even having to use the squeeze.
2. Patches and sprays or creams are also a good way to hold off ejaculation. These are good if you need a fix fast because they go to work a straight away and give super results. The bad thing is they don't come cheap.
3. Another way of stopping ejaculation is to not even think about being inside her until she has reached an orgasm. Use your fingers your tongue or whatever else it takes, just make sure she reaches a climax before you enter her. Firstly she won't care about you ejaculating fast because she has reached her climax. Secondly you will be shocked at how long you last after the pressure of pleasing her has gone.
When I was looking for answers on how do I last longer in bed? I found that pleasing my wife first did the job for me.
How do I last longer in bed? 3 Ways of stopping ejaculation at will