How to Attract Women By Being a Real Man
How to Attract Women By Being a Real Man
How to Attract Women By Being a Real Man
By now, you may or may not be aware of a growing community of men who have decided to make seducing women their main priority. They call themselves PUA's or pickup artists. And make no mistake, they get results. Some of them get deadly good results from using tactics, formulas, and life philosophies.
I hang out with many of them and have been involved myself occasionally. However, I noticed that there are two types of pickup artists natural ones and gamers. And I noticed that the natural ones are the ones who are actually happier in life, and they actually do better in terms of results with women. They don't have to strain. They are genuine and women seem to respond to them like magnets while the gamers seem to have to review their techniques and refine their style all the time. Actually, many of the naturals don't even consider themselves seducers or pickup artists. It just happens as naturally as breathing.
I've heard PUA trainer named Adam Lyons talk about this. He said that gamers can use techniques to punch above their weight class, while naturals.. well.. they ARE in their weight class. So, I think you know where I'm headed with this. Being natural is better. But it is not only better, it is the truth of who you are beautiful, full of love, and complete. I cannot convince you with mere words on your screen, but you already are the confident, attractive man underneath that many women find irresistible. And in order to find that out for yourself, you are going to have to get in touch with your masculinity.
How do you do that? Well, you got to start pushing through the things that are covering your manhood. And those things are quite painful, shameful, and embarrassing. You might even cry when you face some of them. Trust me, unless you already very confident in life and with women, you've got issues. I mean how else do you explain how a man, supposedly a protector of families, pillar of societal strength, and a natural born leader end up stuttering in front of a soft and cute woman? It's not the way we are supposed to be. Somewhere along the lines, we've been emasculated from our true selves.
My issue is that I have a hard time believing anyone can like me. It probably started when I was in school and I got put down by my peers. The hurt made me close down big time. Instead of crying it out, I just closed my heart. Even though it is getting better, and women are responding greatly, I can still feel the pain and desperation when they ignore me or walk away from time to time. It hurts like shit. But in that shitty feeling is a feeling of aliveness. I'm human and beautiful and so I hurt. I feel the hurt so much that I know that I am beyond it. Those voices in my head telling me I'm worthless. Those voices are not me. Those are voices implanted by society translating the pain in my heart the wrong way. Your true voice is saying this is your wound healing. This is the pain of your confusion by trying to acquire what from the outside what you already have inside.
Face the fear, but don't face the fear because you have some vague idea of what I'm saying. Face it with inspiration. Find that inspiration, and that fear will no longer be a pain. If I told you to walk across a narrow plank between two high rises for the hell of it, you would freak out and focus on the suffering of anxiety. But if I told you that your newborn baby is across the other side of the building, you would still feel fear, but you would walk that plank knowing when fear helps you and when it stifles you. You would use that fear for focus and for love. It is no longer a walk of pain, but a walk of love.
It is well worth it, and if you decide to take on this path of the warrior, you will immediately know what I'm talking about. Your opportunities are everywhere. Find your passion in life and truly live it. If you only have a bit of time, then use that bit of time to the fullest to develop your true talents. That is getting in touch with who you really are. Take time out to find out in your own way where that sacred beauty in life is. Is it in nature? Do you need to spend time alone? Is it in spirituality or in poetry? Perhaps, it is in the way you live in the moment when you work on cars or music. You realize how truly beautiful and limitless you are underneath. And with that inspiration, head out into the world and face your fears. Perhaps, if music is your inspiration, face the fear of going for that audition you've always wanted to do. If women are a part of your passion, feel them in their entirety, appreciate them for real human beings with feelings and a rich mysterious history. And then approach them with that inspiration. Its okay if fear comes up. Fully focus on perfecting the practice and facing your fears honestly instead of the results. Feeling the vulnerability and all that comes with it is much more important for your happiness in the long run. Push your boundaries and the fears that keep you from your true passion. It is your nature, and the truth of who you are is a million times more precious than what you can struggle to acquire from this world with mere techniques.
When you begin to reach this state, you realize that it would be a privilege actually for women to be around you because women will see you as a leader that has something big going on inside. They have an immovable force to lean on - to have their softness be held firmly by. This hardness will complement THEIR true soft nature, and then you both will be in universal flow. You will be so strong that you can love fully and expose yourself vulnerably without attachment or neediness. This is the way of the real man. And this is you.
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