How to Change Your Life
How to Change Your Life
How to Change Your Life
Maybe you've fallen out of love or you are in an abusive relationship,you don't like your job or the home and city you live in.You may even dislike your country or continent or your appearance and the name you were given at birth.
The list is endless but one thing is certain you can change whatever you want in your life and make any dreams you have a reality.
How can you do this and where do you start? The key is your dream or dreams,you must have dreams to focus on,it is impossible to change anything in your life without knowing where you want to be in the future.
The future are your dreams,you have to focus on the situation you want to be in not where you are now.Whatever you focus on and direct your attention to is what you will achieve.
Cherish your dreams,live your dreams and make them come alive,nothing in this world was ever achieved by anyone without a dream.
Be the person in your dreams now,this is the secret to achieving success,live the life of your dreams now and you will become the person in your dreams.
First of all decide what you want and who you want to be.Focus on your dream at all times making the dream bigger than your life now.Take as much action as you can to make the change in your life,many small steps together can make one giant leap.
Don't allow anyone to take you away from your dream no matter how close they are to you.Study men and women you admire who have changed their lives and study how they did it.
Never blame anyone for your present situation no matter how bad it is,take responsibility for everything in your life both good and bad,this will empower you.To take action you need energy,the whole world runs on energy,make sure you have enough by exercising and eating healthy foods.
Everyone has a free will and a free choice about their life and what they want to do with it and no one can dictate to you.
Your first choice is to decide that you want to change and then to promise to yourself that you will never go back to the life you are living no matter what it takes.That from now on your life will change forever.
Procrastination is probably the biggest killer of change,there's always some excuse why we should not change or make our life better.We think that if we take no action a situation will get better on its own,or if we do nothing something will happen to kick start our dreams.
Doing nothing becomes a habit,we become more comfortable doing nothing,its familiar like an old pair of shoes,we don't want to change because maybe the new pair of shoes are going to hurt and we will have to get out of our comfort zone.
We have to realise that there will be many obstacles in the path of change but we have a very simple choice.We either stay as we are in our current unhappy state or make a small effort to start the ball rolling to a life that we truly want to live.One that has enormous possibilities for our mental and physical growth and above all is a life that is worth living.
The reality is that our lifespan on this earth is on average between 75 - 80 years with luck,and probably you are reading this with more than half this gone already! So what are you waiting for the clock is counting down,start your change today before your life is over don't leave this earth with regrets.
The easy way is obviously to do nothing,if you really don't want to change just stay as you are its extremely simple.I know however that deep down everyone wants to change,to progress and make their lives better but not everyone is motivated to do it.
Any change has to be taken one step at a time,don't try too much be happy with small successes,build up your confidence slowly lasting change is built on solid foundations.
To do this on your own is not easy,you need someone you can trust and confide in,but before you do involve someone in changing your life make sure the person is 100% on your side and with no hidden agendas.It is better to make changes on your own rather than be sabotaged by someone you thought you could trust.
Here are some key points to help you change.
Focus on your dreams and the life you want to lead.
Take as much action as you can to achieve the above.
Don't blame anyone for your current circumstances.
Take responsibility now and in the future for all your choices.
Don't let procrastination stop you.
Take care of your health to have all the energy you need.
Lastly act as though you are the new person and the new you will come alive, and slowly the person you want to be will have emerged and the old you will no longer be there.
Copyright Keith Bird 2010
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