How to Get Over a Breakup - Guide
How to Get Over a Breakup - Guide
How to Get Over a Breakup - GuideUsually, breakups aren't easy. It feels like you'll never be the same again and you'll never love again. It feels like it is the end of the world, or at least the end of your world. Every place, every object, every movie or song seems to remind you of your ex. You would like to run away; away from your place, from your thoughts and even from your own life. You wonder what the breakup happened or what could've you done to make things right between you and the ex.
Maybe you will get together again, you never know but till then you have to get over the breakup and go on with your life, preparing yourself for a new love story.
I think that things happen with a reason, and if you are dealing with a loss, maybe all this will lead you to something much better like finding "the one". I know, in this moment you can't imagine you'll fall in love again, you feel lost and lonely, but this will pass, the time will heal your heart. It depends on you how soon you want to smile and enjoy the life again.
Here are some tips that are supposed to help you.
Remember you are not alone. Call a friend to come over or to go out with you. Avoid talking about your ex and try to focus on what's next.
Don't feel guilty. Even if you are, this cannot change things. And when the relationship comes to the end, they are both guilty.
Do something nice for the others. Visit an orphanage or a sick child. It makes you feel better about yourself.
Rearrange your furniture. Having activities keeps you away from thinking about the past and it could give you a new vision about the future.
Get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex: gifts, pictures or stuff he left at your place.
Avoid being close to your ex. The friendship area can be very disappointing and painful. Keep the distance, at least for a while.
Spend some money and some time on you. Go shopping and to the spa or even better, go on a trip if that's possible. It helps to get away from the places you have been together.
Listen to some happy songs that always make you smile.
Don't stop to believe in yourself and your own self-worth. A bad relationship doesn't have to make you feel bad about yourself. If you can understand this, I can see a bright future for you. And you'll soon be able to see it too.
Forgive your ex for whatever he has done and accept that things are over. Try to resist the urge to contact him.
Watch an anti-Valentine movie such as: The Breakup, Thelma and Louise, Eternal sunshine of a spotless mind.
Focus on the negative aspects of your ex and tell yourself that you're better without him in your life.
Enjoy being single. Do what single people does, party a lot, meet new people and enjoy yourself.
I know, it's hard to believe this bad feelings will disappear, but believe me, they will. Just give it some time. I know you'll get trough this and you have to trust this too. You are much stronger than you think.