How to Get Women in Bed - 3 Strategies to Expose Her Sexuality
How to Get Women in Bed - 3 Strategies to Expose Her Sexuality
Women have desires that could equal those of men. It's not true that women don't feel the same level of arousal as men. Women are just more adept at hiding their sexuality because of societal rules and the fear of being judged. If you're wondering how to get a woman in bed despite her inhibitions, you need to let her express her sexuality to you. Here are some ways...
1. Make Her Feel Connected to You by Cold Reading
Cold reading can be defined as statements that can make a woman wonder how you know so much about her. This works on a woman who you've never met in the past. This technique sounds so complicated to the uninitiated, but the truth is that any man can pull it off. Psychics use the principle behind cold reading to make predictions and write horoscopes. Most women are into horoscopes, which should tell you just how powerful this technique is if done right.
While your objective is not to act like a psychic, you can apply this concept by emulating the way a psychic would make statements. When you tell her an ambiguous yet general statement like "you like to pamper yourself but you still hold back on other things", she will think that you're reading her mind. This is one way to develop rapport, which is your goal after all. This tells her that you may be the guy who understands her best because you know some things about her that even she doesn't.
2. The "Are You Good Enough" Strategy
There are such things as sexual qualifiers that seduction experts talk about. What are these? These are the actions that you show a woman to make her feel like you won't just sleep with any woman. You see, most guys get flak for being called skirt-chasers or players, usually by the women they want to sleep with. If you can show her that you're not like any guy, and you're actually choosy with the women you date, you can make her feel like proving herself to you.
The idea is you want her to seduce you by qualifying herself as your target. If not with words, she can qualify herself by her actions. Note that you need to be on a good level of rapport before you can start with this strategy. This is an important technique for making women feel like they're after you rather than the other way around.
3. Sexually Charged Conversation
Some guys balk when they start talking about sex. They think that women are not sexually charged, or at least not on a level comparable to men. When you get her to open up, you can talk about sexual experiences and even fantasies for the sake of conversation. Once you get her talking about sex, even if it's about her past sexual experiences, you're one step closer to pitching your offer to go home together. A conversation about sex, no matter how brief, is a good thing.
Don't be like other guys who talk all night without making any progress when it comes to their main objective, which is to get women in bed. Every woman has a sexuality that she doesn't show others, except the men she intends to sleep with.