How to Get Your Ex Back and Stay Together
How to Get Your Ex Back and Stay Together
We all know, and accept, that it takes two to tango so it will help to establish where it all went wrong in your own relationship from both sides point of view. Often there are many issues being the cause for the breakdown in your relationship so you need to assess the damage and acknowledge where the problem lies, no accusing, and no shouting but in a calm, honest and open discussion. This is NOT easy, in fact it can be incredibly difficult, but if you can negotiate this first step to getting your ex back is virtually guaranteed.
Later I would like to introduce you to someone who is a huge source of inspiration and offers explosive advice but firstly I would like to offer a few nuggets of advice based on my own humble experience. You are here because you have asked "how to get your ex back" thousands share your plight. I am now in my 38th year of marriage, slightly battered but still here, believe me you should make the effort because in the long term it is worth it.
6 Steps to Getting Back with You Ex
Admit to the things that are wrong, it might seem obvious but you must both be honest with yourselves
Are you Willing to Change? If both of you cannot answer an unqualified "YES" then you are wasting your time reading any further. Unless your partner is being unreasonable then accept that it is good to compromise.
Stay strong and confident. You want this to work but not at any cost, it is important to show your partner that they are loved but you still retain a sense of independence.
Concentrate on all that is good with your relationship, boost your partner's confidence by recalling the good times and the contribution they made this will make them realise how great things are with you as a couple
Take a little break from each other. Have a few days apart but fix a time to meet up again and choose a place with happy memories, this could spark a new romance.
Promise yourselves not to repeat the mistakes. Ok so we are all human and mistakes will still be made in the future, but remember what really hurts your partner, avoid these mistakes at all cost.
So are you hurting enough to try a few of these suggestions, they will not be the solution for everyone but you must both put in a huge effort if you are to succeed in getting back together and these will form part of the first few steps. I do recommend you take a look at the Magic of Making up so many other couples have been reunited because of it.
My very best wishes to you, work at it, you will be so glad you did.