How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Simple Ways
How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Simple Ways
How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Simple WaysYou have recently broke up with your girlfriend/boyfriend. And after cooling off,
you have been consistently thinking of your ex and want to get your ex back. Being
emotional about getting your ex back could be a disastrous thing as you can lose your
logic and forget about the fundamental rules you need to observe before acting to get your
ex back. Its good to take a step back and take a good look at what's going on and
start savaging the relationship instead of destroying it.
Think of what was the reason of the break up.
Before you approach your ex, you need to think about what wrong have you done to lead
to the conclusion of your relationship. There must be many things to have lead to this
end. Think about it and write them out on a piece of paper the faults you have made
in this relationship. What was the reason she gave to you for breaking up. Was it you
have changed and ignore her unintentionally? Have you been doing the things she hates
most and ignoring her feelings? Look at the things you have done and find a solution
to those.
Finding Yourself Back
Over the months or years of the relationship, you tend to have forgotten or overlook
the fact that both of you are together because of who you were at the point when both
of you met. Both of you appeal each other because of certain characteristic that
both of you have displayed. You may have forgotten or stop doing the things you have
done that she / he loved you for, like stop calling her everyday, or passing sweet
comments to her, not listening to her/ his requests. You need to find the person you
were in the past, the reason or things you use to do for her. This will ignite the
reason why she fell in love with you.
Meeting Your Ex Back
After a good cooling off period, you may want to ask your ex out for a coffee or a meal.
The cooling off period is vital as both of you will have thought about the things that
should have or shouldn't have done. When you guys meet up, start something unrelated
and slowly you may start with the things you guys use to do, the silly fights you guys
had. When it develops well, you guys may talk about why did you guys break up. What
was the intention why she / he wanted to let you go. There is bound to be a certain strong
enough reason why he/ she has courage to move on. Try to find out why and how you can
change for it. Don't do all these in a day! Take some time to develop the rapport and
relationship. Just like how you woo her in the past. It takes time to nurture the
feelings back and he / she will start missing you and wanting to talk to you more.
How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Simple Ways
By: Jimm Yim