Everyday couples break up all over the world. Some just move on with their lives but for others it is just not that easy. Did you know that you can get your Ex back? It doesn't matter if everything looks hopeless right now, there are certain things that you can do to improve your chances of getting back together and rekindling the flame. Once a break up has occurred you really need to sit back and evaluate why the break up occurred in the first place. You need to break off contact with them to clear your mind and let them clear theirs. This will make it much easier to be able to explore your feelings and make sure that you want them back in the first place. The majority of people just make things worse when they are trying to get their ex to take them back. Would you want to take someone back if they seemed desperate and needy? They won't either. The time that you spend apart will make your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend miss you and will hopefully have them thinking about the good times that the two of you spent together. It will also erase the bad thoughts that caused the break in the first place. After you have spent sometime apart get in contact with them, find a reason that does not seem like you are up to something. Make up an excuse possibly you left a CD at their place or you need to ask them something that only they would know. If done right you should see you in a new light, which will bring back the feelings and initial attraction that brought you together in the first place.
The main thing is to stay calm act like your Ok with the break up, DO NOT ACT DESPERATE. This will not help in the slightest.