How to Improve Break up Recovery and Rekindle the Passion

So how do you improve break up recovery? The trick is to get back together

. Most couples split for silly reasons. With some good communication they could overcome their problems and rekindle the passion.

You first need to decide if you want to get back with this person. Forget about what they want for a moment and concentrate on what you would like. Once you are certain, you will be much more credible as you convince the other person to give you another opportunity.

If you conclude that you don't want to get back with your ex you should have no problem getting over the break up. But I don't think you are eager to let that relationship go, do you?

You need to set up a get-together with your ex to talk about your future. Apologise for anything that went wrong, whether it was your mistake or not; and consent to put it in the past. Yes you need to resolve your issues but you don't need to dwell on them.

Focus on the positives. What have you got going for you? Why should the two of you be together? Talk about the great times you have had, the history you share, the sexual attraction that burns between you and hopefully you will be celebrating getting back together very soon.

It may take a couple of meetings and a while to get back on track but it will be worth it. If you had a great relationship it is worth fighting for. Finding someone special to love who loves you in return isn't straightforward and shouldn't be given up without due consideration. Add to that a shared history, family and children and you will soon recognize, if you haven't already done so, that you belong together.

If there was a reason for your breakup, perhaps one of you had an affair; it doesn't need to spell the end. Affairs always occur for a reason. Perhaps you were not paying your partner any or enough interest. Perhaps they felt taken for granted. Or it could be something as simple as too many drinks at the Christmas or office party. None of these make adultery right. The only way to deal with getting over adultery is to ask yourself if you met your ex recently would you want to spend the rest of your life with them and forget about past affairs. If you just met them you wouldn't let previous relationships upset you would you? So why let a mistake?

I know that it is not easy to understand your partner sleeping with someone else; but you can get over it. If you still love this person and want them in your life, go to couples counselling and see if the therapist can help you both to work through your feelings. You may find that you cannot live with the deception and unfaithfulness and decide to split up after all. But you could also decide that by bringing all the problems into the open, you can resolve them and go forward with a much stronger relationship. You just need to approach the situation with an open mind.

Having someone you love in your life is far too important to let it go over something insignificant or in some cases something very upsetting. So forget about trying to improve the "break up recovery" and concentrate on rekindling the passion you once had.

How to Improve Break up Recovery and Rekindle the Passion

By: Dave Islington

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