If you are wondering if your wife is having an affair
, there is a very good probability that your suspicions are based on troubling and sickening feelings that simply do not make sense to you. But before you can accuse your wife of anything, you must be 100% certain she is committing adultery or you run the risk of damaging your relationship beyond fixing. You can't come out and indict your wife unless of course you have proof. So how do you go about decoding the tell tale signs of cheating from those signs that might just be based on your own fears and insecurities?
First thing that you will notice if your wife is having an affair is that intimacy levels have dropped or have become non-existent. One of the things that suffer after an affair commences is physical intimacy in a marriage. If your wife is making excuses as to why your sex life has come to a halt or seems to be evading physical contact that may be a sign she is getting her needs fulfilled elsewhere. It may also come to your observation that you are constantly arguing, fighting and becoming distant from one another. Does your wife seem to be on your case a lot more than usual? Are you having fights over the smallest issues? Your wife might be trying to substantiate in her mind why she is cheating on you and using this against you over the smallest problems as if you have now become an insignificant part of her life.
Another tell-tale sign your wife may be having an affair is her persistent screening of calls, deleting numbers and text messages on her cell phone. She may be also hiding email addresses and messages from you. Ask yourself, is your wife very secretive on the computer when you are around and does she seem to not let go of her cell phone? Is she suddenly more self conscious about her appearance? Has she began working out or going to the gym more often and are you finding clothes, perfume and other items you have never seen before, such as sexy lingerie? Watch out for these not-so-discreet signs, otherwise you may never know if you have a cheating wife on your hand.