How to Tell Your Partner You Want to Use a Sex Toy
It can be difficult to tell your partner you want to use a sex toy in the bedroom
, but it shouldn't be as hard as you think it will be. Your partner loves you and wants to make you happy. You have a right to experience great sex and if you think an adult toy will make the sex a better experience for you, why not tell your partner? Here are some tips on how to tell your partner you want to useadult toys.Tip 1 Be Sensitive to Your Partner's Feelings
No man likes to feel inadequate in the bedroom. He always wants to feel like he is the best in the bedroom, so you have to be careful not to imply that you are introducing the sex toy into your relationship because he is lacking in some way. Make sure you reassure your partner that the sex is good already and you just want to try something different (rather than use the word better).
Tip 2 Share Your Fantasies with Your Partner
Be open with your partner. Some women find it easier to get their partner talking about sexual fantasies and then you can you bring in the fact that you have always wanted to try a particular type of sex toy. If your partner seems interested in living out your fantasy, you'll be able to easily introduce your sex toy into the relationship.
Tip 3 Shop Together for Your Sex Toy
You may even like to shop together for your sex toy. Shopping online at home is discreet and gives you the opportunity to discuss your likes together before your sex toy arrives. Getting your partner involved in the shopping experience gives him some control and lets him enjoy the experience of anticipation right along side of you.
Tip 4 Don't Be Embarrassed
Your partner sees you naked and knows what you like. Being open and honest with your partner is the only way to build a loving relationship that lasts. There is absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed about introducing a sex toy into your relationship. If you feel embarrassed when you discuss a sex toy with your partner, you will give off the impression that somehow what you are suggesting is dirty'. It isn't! Sex toys give many women and men great pleasure in the bedroom and often enhance the sexual relationship.
Tip 5 Plan Your Timing for the Discussion
Think about the time and place you initiate the discussion of introducing sex toys into your relationship. The worst possible time to do so would be immediately after having sex with your partner, because he will automatically assume you are criticizing his latest performance and will be hurt. You want to have the discussion at a time you are alone together and feeling romantic, but not necessarily about to engage in sex right then. This helps to introduce the topic without too many emotions clouding the issue. Make your discussion lighthearted and fun, and give your partner plenty of time to respond to the idea.
Introducingadult toys into your relationship can add spice to your lovemaking and can help you to reach multiple orgasms. Plan to discuss the issue with your partner in an open and loving way and you will see how much he wants to enjoy a sex toy with you.
How to Tell Your Partner You Want to Use a Sex Toy
By: Karly Cruiser