When you are texting a guy, you want to create positive anchors and triggers. When he sees he has a message from you, you want him to feel anticipation and excitement before he reads it. You want to use this anticipation to build the attraction. When learning the best ways how to text a guy, always remember, less is more. Also try to be let him be the last one to text, find a good cut off point and stop, leaving him wanting more.