How to Walk in a Way That Attracts Attention From Women
It has been said that about 70% of all communication is nonverbal
. And this is definitely true to women as women view the world differently to us men. More important than what you say, is how you say it.
That is why the saying goes "Actions speak louder than words" (the nonverbal speaks louder than the verbal). That is why you need to learn how to speak and communicate in the words of Body Language. You need to know how to communicate confidence and affectionate attention in our everyday movements and to avoid body language cues that communicate fear, insecurity, shyness and timidity (unless that is the message you want to give).
So lets focus now on the basic step of walking confidently and communicating confidence with each stride because way too many men communicate a lack of confidence in the way they walk.
Have you noticed this?
If you have not then its probably because you are a culprit of timid walking. Now there is only one way to walk confidently and here it is:
Step #1: Shoulders Back.
Slouching is not an option if you with to communicate confidence. Believe it or not, women do not find a caveman look as you walk very appealing. Now when you first tried walking with your shoulders pushed back it will probably feel a bit uncomfortable. It was for me as well. This is because of all the slouching we have become accustomed to. But it is necessary if you are to walk upright and erect for the world to see. And what is so special about this simple body adjustment? Well the evidence of its benefit is in its results. When your shoulders are pushed back, your arms swing will become less profound yet more fluid. Your general stance becomes erect. Your walk will become more relaxed and fluid. Your breadths become deeper and more relaxing. And due to your new shoulder alignment you are forced to look up as you walk. Now since your stance is now upright, you will appear to strut forward confidently; Chest out, head held up high and looking straight forward into the world with confidence!
Step # 2: Look Up.
Now this step might initially seem weird but let me explain. The only way you will be able to maintain confident look and feel you acquire from step 1 is to not do something that communicates fear. Walking while looking down communicates fear. It is also quite hard to walk shoulders back, erect stance, head held up high while also looking down. Something will have to give and if what gives is the breakdown of step #1 then you can say goodbye to communicating confidence as you walk. So the most effective way to maintain a confident walk is to give people a confident stare as you walk. This simply means holding the gaze of the other person, no matter what. This usually turns out to be on the hardest things to do as the natural reaction when you lock eyes with someone is to look away and down. And its especially true for men when they meet beautiful women (well women, in general).
Why?
Because you are shy and scared at the prospect of holding eye contact. And you probably reason it out as you were trying not to be rude. Think about it in from this point of view; if you met up with a successful and rich businessman would you expect him to shy away from looking you in the eyes? Of course not! And on the same note, why should you look away?
When you hold the gaze with someone, a real yet subtle power struggle is ensues, with the looser being the first person to look away or down. And this little competition is one of self confidence. But do not get me wrong, I am not telling you to blankly stare people in the face like a creep. No, all I want you to understand is that walking around looking down is not the way to communicate confidence in your Body Language.
Now there are ways to avoid appearing confrontational as you look someone is the eyes. For example, you can smile, nodding your head in acknowledgement and/or greeting and if you are feeling super confident about yourself then go ahead and wink if it is a cute girl:)
So the whole point of holding the gaze is to convey confidence as you walk and by doing so you guarantee that you maintain an upright walking style which communicates and creates great self confidence.
Men and women communicate mostly in body language but only women are naturally masters at identifying and interpreting body language signs. So learning how to communicate confidence in your everyday body language will definitely catch the eyes of women around you. Now start using these 2 steps and transform your walk instantly into a dynamic display of great self confidence.
How to Walk in a Way That Attracts Attention From Women
By: Ngure Kanjumba
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