How to Win your Ex Back Even When your Heart has been Broken into Pieces!
How to Win your Ex Back Even When your Heart has been Broken into Pieces!
Is your heart breaking as the result of a recent break up? Do you wish you could turn back time and change what happened? If you are missing your ex and want another chance, here is how you can win your ex back.
Firstly, do not put too much pressure on your ex to rethink their decision. Give them some space to think things through and with any luck they may regret their decision and give you another go.
Give them some space for about a week or so, and this means no calling, emailing or texting during that week. Just chill out and play it cool, don't go looking desperate by sending flowers every day and begging them to come back to you.
If you haven't heard from your ex after a week or so then contact them, but remain cool, calm and collected. Don't overdo it and become desperate, just give them a quick call or even an email just asking how they are doing.
There needs to be a good balance of power in a relationship and this also carries over into a break up. You need to stay strong and keep your level of power, if you give up that power by desperately chasing your ex, then your chances of getting them back will be poor.
If the cause of the break up was something minor then there is a good chance that if you give them some space for a few days, you will then be able to work things out when you make contact and talk things over.
Some breakups are over bigger issues and it could be a harder battle to win your ex back. If a month has gone by and you are still apart then you might need to step up your game and try some new tactics. Your partner may have even started thinking about dating other people by this time so you don't want to leave things too much longer.
Even at this stage, you do not want to seem overly desperate and put too much pressure on your ex. If you begin to stalk your ex then you will only result in looking silly, desperate and weak and this is not the way to win back your ex.
You can contact your ex and invite them out for a coffee just to have a chat. Chat about the good times you had together and pick particular moments that were good and you both enjoyed. Let them know you miss those times and let them know that you still care for them and are interested in trying again.
Another method used to win back an ex is to date someone else, perhaps even one of their friends. If your ex can see you with someone else it might make them jealous and rethink their decision. If they see that you are moving on with their life they might also question whether they really did make the right decision when breaking up with you. It might get them thinking that they need to resolve things quickly before it's too late.
You have every right to date someone else if you have broken up with your ex but you might want to seriously think about taking it any further than that. Your ex may take you back when you have dated someone else but they may not take you back if you have slept with someone else. So if you really want to win your ex back you should remain faithful to them even though you have broken up.
I hope that this article has given you some ideas on how to win your ex back.