How to become a pole dancer-Advanced tips on how to approach men

How to become a pole dancer-Advanced tips on how to approach men

The singular most common blunder that most of us make in an initial chat with our client is stress about how we are coming across. If you are unable to focus on the guy in front of you because you're desperately attempting to think about what you should talk about next, or you're striving to shift how you stand so that you look alluring rather than slouchy, then he's going to pick up on your stress and translate that into beginning to feel uncomfortable around you.

Worrying about how worried you are will only accentuate it, so a better solution is to forget about how you're coming across and target your mental energy on him. You're talking to this client to see if you'd be interested in getting to know him better and therefore he will feel he needs to impress you. so find out a lot more about him! Ask him questions; notice his body language. You'll appreciate the conversation more when you're not anxious about what you have to say next or whether what you just said sounded silly or whether you are closing the sale. Concentrate for the first few minutes on him and then make a decision whether he is a good candidate

One improper response to anxiety is to drink more. Although one or two glasses of wine may make you feel more settled, any more will impair your social ability (though you'll be too intoxicated to notice it). Continue to be sober and use other means to loosen up.

Many of us find that focusing on their breathing is a great way to clear and sooth the mind. Try focusing on the effect of the air rushing into your lungs, the way your chest expands, and letting the air out in a gradual, controlled way.

Another superb technique is to imagine that you already know the guy in front of you and that he is going to hand you a lot of cash, so that all the awkwardness and pressure is gone. So much of the pressure we experience around the clients is caused by our concern that he won't like us and consequently we wont make money from him. What if, in our thoughts, he already did? All the vibrancy, joy, and warmth of our true character shine through when we're in the company of our buddies. Let it shine on him. So visualize when you are chatting to him that he really desires you and he will spend lots of money on you. When you do this you will loosen up around the customer and you will make more cash.

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