How to find The One
How to find The One
How to find The One
The Purpose of The One
The purpose of coming together with your Beloved is to completely and utterly unify - leaving nothing for yourself. No more Miss Independent gals or Mr. Bachelor men. You will become two hearts and one soul. Please know that this is not merely a romantic dream or fairytale of meeting Mr. or Mrs. Right. This is absolutely what is possible. It is a divine marriage, where every moment is shared, drenched in trust and consciousness, and renders both parties in a profound sense of love, rest, and embrace with all of life everywhere.
In short, a life lived without fear.
Doesn't that sound delish? Trust me, it is.
The greater purpose of coming together with your Beloved is to then extend that loving fearlessness between the two of you in service to others. This can cover an entire spectrum of possibilities. The one common notion is that the union will be given to something greater, other than living happily ever after. You get to be madly in love with the person you are meant to be with and work together to transform the world in some capacity. It doesn't get any better than this!
One last hallmark is that this journey is full-time and devours every waking (and sleeping) moment. It's not something you do on the weekend when you spend time with each other. No, the moment you meet is the moment it begins. Your other will ache for your constant 100 percent presence, even when you are not there! You will not be able to be half-hearted or a part-timer about this. It is often intense, hot, passionate, challenging, and painful at times, yet paradoxically relaxing, nourishing in ways that were once forgotten, and magnificently healing.
I can also sincerely promise there is a way to work all this out whilst being part of the everyday modern world. You will find a way, as what you are is far greater than any culture or society. It's amazing to watch as the elements of your life that were once so rigid, bend and mold to your unified existence with your Beloved the more you journey together. You will have so much support from the cosmos, all you have to do is ask, and it is there. So when you meet a challenge, ask out loud for "help!" It will most certainly arrive.
Please note: from my experience, friends and family may not offer useful support, as they cannot usually comprehend what is going on, unless they are going through the same thing. You are going to have to go to the divine on this one! It's a true test to follow your soul, as this love brings in powerful, enlightening lessons on many levels. You saw it in my own journey with Sananda; I was virtually on my own, using my intuition to guide me. And that's why it is so important that I support you on your journey to the Beloved. You're not alone ever you are always guided and supported!
When those feelings of loneliness or going at this journey alone do arise, offer a heartfelt prayer for help. When I experienced these sensations, I would often climb into bed (where possible), or find a private place to cry. This process opens your heart to such a profound depth, and so you will become increasingly sensitive which is a beautiful gift. To love at this level, the heart has to be open and receivable. I had to remind myself that I was not alone; that others had traveled this path before me. I would always be aware of my feelings, openly crying when I had to, making sure that I was not denying any emotions. All emotions (positive and negative) come from the soul. As this was the place that we truly coming from, and making our way back to - I made damn sure I was doing my part with the housework! Every feeling that I had was acknowledged, felt and released. If ever I felt lonely and that no one understood me, I would absorb myself with the power of the Beloved by reading the incredible poetic words of love by Rumi or Hafiz. These two poets reminded me, that I was not alone.
Please remember you can (and I'm entreating you to do so!) take refuge in my story, knowing that I am walking beside you every step of the way. This is part of my service, to support and encourage those who are on the Path of Love. Reach into your heart and you will find me, amongst many others, waiting to assist you on your next step. Whenever faced with a situation you don't feel prepared for, ask yourself such questions as What would love do now?' or What would love say in this moment?' Say yes to love in every moment, letting it guide you to your other. Trust, as you are being perfectly led.
Another commonality of Beloveds is that they typically have two (usually polar opposite); highly individual unique ranges of experiences and lessons. For example, Sananda's life was one of profound consciousness and experiences of God in Samadhi (God realization). This resulted in his path being one of truth and clear seeing. Whereas with me, it was quite different. My life had revealed to me a Path of Love and Bhakti (devotion). In my moments' of God realization, my gift was love, genuine care, and kindness for all living beings.
In a word you could say that I was love,' while Sananda was truth.' We realized we had to share our understandings and experiences of love and truth with each other, so we could learn from one another in action. What do I mean by that? While we were dating and especially during the time when we were living together in France, I learned about truth and clear seeing from Sananda through deep and painfully long periods of time in meditation and stillness. He learned about love and kindness by watching me in action in our life, sharing my infectious joy and fun with all living beings.
These apparent differences' will appear both extremely interesting to your other, and potentially problematic as at first they may not fully comprehend why you chose to experience them, as it may seem to contradict their journey. They may feel your experiences are far too much in opposition to theirs. However, your Beloved will inevitably wish to address these experiences with you in various ways to a) understand what happened to you, b) feel your experiences deeply for themselves and then finally c) clear away the more darker aspects that could potentially pose as obstacles to the full union. For instance, with Sananda and me, we now share all of our combined aspects - power, Shakti, profound consciousness, Bhakti (love), Shakti, and compassion as we have integrated and become one. Truly magical!
In short, the reason why you come together with your Beloved is to burn, pull down, dissolve, and heal all and any resistance that may be preventing you from truly becoming one with your other. For some reason, which I often call grace, you have been destined to find one another again on Earth. As you know, this is a priceless and rare blessing as it was once highly unusual for both Beloveds to be embodied on Earth at the same time. Both Sananda and I feel very strongly that the coming of 2012 is allowing for more Beloveds to be brought together than ever before. And as you read in my journey, the process can be ruthlessly fast and chaotic.
Why all the high-drama intensity, you might ask (as is often the case for Beloveds)? Beloveds were birthed together as one; therefore deep within them they know that exquisite oneness is possible even if on a human level it seems as though it's been long forgotten. Because of the deep oneness they both feel drawn to; there will be an intense desire to return back to their original state of oneness as soon as possible. It could, of course, also be a slow, steady, and relatively smooth transition. Anything is possible in this magical world, right? But, even if the coming together is smooth, the purpose is the same. Once you merge with your Beloved (whether effortless or challenging) - please share your experiences with us on the Pilgrimage of Love website.
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