How to get my Ex Back – Finding out what made you and your Ex Grow Apart
Now that you and your ex have gone separate ways
, you feel that it's just another bad dream that will end the moment you wake up. The thing is, no matter how you pinch yourself, it's still there continuing to give you a hard time coping.Realization hit you after you saw your ex's "single status" in Facebook. "What went wrong? Is there a chance we can be together? How do I get my ex back?" These are few of the questions you long to be answered. But whether you like it or not, your relationship is already a history.
Try to focus on the first question: what went wrong? Analyze the things that happened before the breakup. Have you done anything against your ex's philosophies? Or is it the other way around?
It is necessary to be alone and away from your ex in order to come up with a sane realization. Sometimes when you are with someone you love and things turned sour between the two of you, you can't help but become bitter and irrational towards the situation.
Think of how the relationship started and the things that made your ex fall in love with you and vice versa. What was your X factor that melted your ex's heart? Were you a hopeless-romantic type when you were still dating?
Or how about this one? You used to surprise your ex with sweet notes, small tokens, and impromptu dates. But it stopped when you reached your first anniversary or worse, your 6th monthsary. So what's the catch? You've stopped being the person your ex had cherished and loved.
Let's take a peek down your ex's end. What was about this ex lover of yours that swept you off your feet?
Perhaps you've changed because you saw changes in your ex, too. Or maybe it happened the other way around he or she stopped being a thoughtful partner because you've also become the least humorous boyfriend/girlfriend in the history of mankind.
Whoever started those alterations is not the issue here. The main focus of your recollection is for you to know how to properly react with the situation. Because if you close your mind from other reasons why you and your ex grew apart, you will never realize your mistakes and put all the blame on him/her. Or you will keep on believing that it's entirely your fault why the relationship died down.
Now that you've found out what made the relationship come to its end, start pulling yourself together and think of the most reasonable ways to get your ex back. Start accomplishing your mission by bringing to mind what you were like when you were still dating your ex.
How to get my Ex Back Finding out what made you and your Ex Grow Apart
By: Ben Cawiezell