We all talk about an independent girl or independent lady. But what they actually are. Are they working? Thats why they are known as independent. Or they are high society butterflies who attendant each & every page 3 parties or late night parties. Inspite of being married they are having boy friends is that we call an independent lady? Or who believe to living in live-in relationships or open marriages? Or who is just concern about herself only? Or inculcating drinking or smoking habits?
The answer is no as per my opinion. Independent lady is that lady who dedicates her life to her loved ones. Her decision will never be biased. She will ever think of improvement & will ever try to raise herself from the current status. She will always make herself updated. She never root on the wrong things rather she is very much capable to do whatever she wants. However she will do that thing which will help her to make her family as well as her own life prosperous. An independent lady could be a house wife even. She takes decision that how her home should be. She can implement the rules & regulations as well to keep the things in discipline. How she brings her child up that is reflected in her child. When ever we come across a child who is good in moral behaviors, we appreciate that child as well as his or her mother too for upbringing her child so well. She knows what she needs to maintain a good family.
Independent lady could be working too. She does her job with sincerity. She always tries to perform as well as she can. Apart from her professional life she is also having a personal life where she is as good as she is in her professional life. She knows how to make balance in both lives. She hates exploitation & bully on her. When she is capable of taking correct decision then why she will follow other command in her life. In professional life may be she follows her boss command but when it comes about her own life she loves to take her own decision. While taking any decision she ever keeps in mind that it should not hurt anybody in the family.
If we describe an independent lady then it will be like a bird who loves to fly higher & higher in the sky but she also knows that she is having a nest where she has a family & few family members who are depend upon her so she has to come back in time & have to do her duty as well. But whenever she gets time she flies as higher as she can in the sky. She ever succeeded in her task because she knows her responsibilities.
Those female who understand the meaning of independence will ever succeed in life. Independency teaches us to be free while taking decisions but it does not mean that they are not having responsibility. They are taking decisions on the respect of their task so that they can accomplish it efficiently. Having extra marital affairs or live-in relationships will never be a part of independence because Independence teaches us to be free in your thoughts & do something which sets an example for the next generation by taking the correct decisions not by spoiling the families & culture of the society by abetting the wrong things or habit.