If You Really Want To Get Your Ex Back, You Need To Quit Doing These Highly Devastating Things!
My friend, there are times in life, when you really need to sit down and assess what
you are getting out of life, and more so why you are NOT getting what you want. I am sure you have asked yourself many times, why the break up occurred and why you can't just get your ex back.This is really the moment of truth, because I am going to lay a few things down for you which will make everything clear for once, so that you can actually remove all obstacles in the way of your ultimate goal: pulling your ex back. Read on to discover the highly devastating things which stand in the way of getting your ex back...
1: The most devastating PROBLEM
YOU. You are literally the most devastating issue standing in the way of getting your ex back. But you may ask yourself how and why? I know you love your ex and you want them back badly, but your impetuosity has caused everything to literally turn upside down, even more so than things did when the break up occurred.
So how exactly are you standing in the way, when all you want is to get your ex back? Well do any of these things sound familiar:
Soliciting to your ex to take you back.
Losing control of your better judgment and going ballistic on your ex.
Blaming, fighting, arguing, insulting and accusing your ex, because you are not happy with the breakup.
Admonishing your ex and threatening him/her, alongside getting angry.
Being so depressed that you literally cannot do anything anymore...
And the list goes on, as you are well aware.
While I am not here to point out every single thing which you have done wrong, what I am trying to say here, is simply that your emotions have literally grasped control of your life. The most devastating thing right now, are your emotions!
Get a grip, calm down, and think about things reasonably, so that your ex can really take you seriously. You cannot expect your ex to really consider anything you say, when you are doing the above, and you know that it's in your best interest at the end of the day to literally exhibit the most powerful strong self control, no matter how hard it may seem right now.
2: This harmless thing can EASILY get in the way
What is it that everyone wants at the end of the day? Is it happiness? While most may think that happiness is it, what people really want, is they want peace of mind. How do you get peace of mind? Well most certainly, it wouldn't come if you were constantly misunderstood and everything you wanted was misunderstood as well! That would be frustrating, wouldn't it?
Now put yourself in your ex's shoes, because those are the shoes your ex is standing in RIGHT NOW. If you were to clearly look at things, everyone wants to be understood, and that is a major part of a relationship: being able to understand the person, without judgment or misunderstandings.
One of the biggest misunderstandings right now, is YOUR understanding of your ex and what he/she wants. Something as simple as this: a misunderstanding, can get in your way, and trust me it most certainly will.
Most people have this huge misconception of what a break up is. Breakups never really "just" happen, as I know for a fact that you can look back and will find many arguments and disagreements which you have had over your ex, mostly over what each person wants from each other.
When someone feels they are not going to be able to get those things, with time they can't help but lose faith and finally just break off the relationship and this is what has happened. But you mistake this for your ex making a huge mistake, and consider your ex to be completely wrong. In the end, you are looking at all the wrong things, and are completely misunderstanding your ex.
What your ex actually desires, is to be understood. Your ex wants you to see the needs right now, and in the moment, that is space. In this misunderstanding, I am sure that you have become afraid and tried to contact your ex more than is normal, and you may have even taken things to the extreme.
This will be perceived as the inability to understand, from your ex, which is not what you want, so why are you still letting this get in your way? Find out what your ex really wants, and instead of judging it, complaining, arguing or getting mad, try and understand where he/she is coming from, because once you do, your ex will have a much easier time communicating with you.
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by: Rahul Talwar