If You Want Your Ex Back You Need To Know What Caused The Breakup
Author: Jon Kozlov
Author: Jon Kozlov
Okay, so you want your ex back right? Now I wish it was simple enough to just sum it up in a few sentences but it takes a little more than that. Being dumped hurts! There are a few critical things that you need to do if you want your ex back.
First of all, let's be honest, you're in pain. I understand this because I've been dumped before too. The worst thing you can do right now is beg for forgiveness. This will never work. You need to give the other person some time and space while you sort some things out.
Do you know what caused the break up? Please ask yourself this question. You really need to think about what caused the break up because if you don't have a clue what cause the break up then it will be very difficult to get back together. The reason itself doesn't really matter. It could have been cheating, distance, or fighting. None of that matters though. What matters most is that at one time you two had a connection and that is definitely possible to get back.
In reality, the breakup happened for a reason. There is always a trigger. It's possible that it could be something that you did or didn't do. Maybe your partner didn't think you gave them enough attention. If that's the case then you know what you have to do next time. Both of you made mistakes in the relationship and that's why it's important to be realistic about what caused the relationship to fall apart.
So once you have figured out what caused the relationship to fall apart and you're willing to move past that, then you're on your way. But there is something you need to know. When trying to rekindle a relationship there will be some "unpredictable" circumstances that you run into. Don't blame anyone but yourself and your partner for the break up.
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