Important Steps To Take If You Still Love Him And Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back
When you have just had your man tell you that he thinks your love relationship should
be put on hold for a while and you are still deeply in love with him, you are faced with a dilemma. Should you beg him to reconsider and risk being rejected again, or go on with your life and try to forget him? If you beg him and tell him you cannot live without him, he will cut off any contact with you and lose all respect for you as well. If you try to move on with your life, you face a bleak future without the man you love. There is another choice and that is to go about getting him back sensibly. Here are some important steps to take if you still love him and want your ex boyfriend back.The most important steps you can take to get your ex back are steps that he does not expect you to take. He is anticipating you to come running to him, pouring your heart out, begging, pleading, and promising to be his slave if he will only love you again. This is why he has prepared himself for your onslaught and is ready to reject any attempt to communicate with him. Stop and think. If he wanted out of the relationship yesterday or a few days ago, why do you think a few tears would magically transform him into a kind and loving boyfriend again? You know it will not work, so why lose your dignity and let him see you in the worst possible way?
An important step to take if you still love him and want your ex boyfriend back is to accept the breakup. This is hard to do, but it happened and it will not go away because of wishful thinking. Next, you have to respect your ex boyfriend's wishes and give him the space he asked for. These are things he is not expecting you to do. But instead, you give him all the space and time he needs and appear to be going on with your life. Go visit relatives and friends you have neglected during your relationship. They will be glad to see you and lend you their support. You will begin feeling better at once. You will realize that there other people you should be sharing your life with other than your ex boyfriend.
Next, you should get with these friends and go out and have some fun. This will lift your spirits even higher. You will recall the good times you had before you met your ex, and he will lose a little more importance in your life. While you are doing these things, your ex boyfriend is beginning to miss you. He is having second thoughts about the breakup and he will attempt to contact you. This will cause you to make another decision. Do you really want him back? If you do let him back into your heart, make sure you never make him your whole life again.
Important Steps To Take If You Still Love Him And Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back
By: H. L. Archer