If you have decided that you must try to get back together with your ex after breaking up there are important steps you must take. If you still have love for your ex, try to think about why this break up happened. You need to be aware of what the circumstances are before you head into your pursuit of your ex. While you are at it, dont keep trying to keep calling them and begging for them to come back to you, this will not help you. First you need to come up with a plan so you have something to focus on. If you just randomly try to get your ex back you might fail because you are not going about it the right way. Make a plan for when and how you will go about this and as you plan you may have a better idea if getting them back is what you really want. If you are sure this what you want just focus on the job at hand. Also at this point forget about who may be at fault for the break up just follow your plan. Dont expect the relationship to restart right where the two of left off. It is going to take some time to get past any hard feelings and to get to know each other again. Learn to become friends first then let the relationship develop from there. Be nice, if you are angry or have an attitude toward your ex you will kill any chance you may have had. About the Author:
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