Improving Oneself Is Just A Cake Walk! Discover 3 Self Enhancements To Heed
Improving oneself is not about getting the best in life
, not about having the best companions and buddies in the world, not determined by a fat paycheck, and definitely not about savory reputation. Although the abovementioned things can be favorable bonuses of self improvement, still the most potent form of improving oneself lies in discovering your potentials away form the "musts" and "shoulds" of this world. You may be stuck in personality limbo and don't know how to overcome your weaknesses, but there are things in life that are already there yet people still don't know how to put them into practice. So to pave the way for self improvement, here are tips to help you achieve that kind of personality step up and advancement you're aiming for all this time:1.Stop going all-out - You may find this tip paradoxical but in order to achieve genuine personal growth, you must stop striving and reaching for the standards of this world. Yes, you may want to have a great paying job or a luxury car, but have you asked yourself if these things have helped in your self improvement? Improving oneself is only achieved when you're able to do well without specific material things and lifestyle markers in mind.
2.Believe in yourself - You may have a full life most of your peers covet, but if you don't have much belief in yourself, all the things you have right now don't matter. Take this example as a helpful guide: you're a good speaker - that's both a fact and a compliment, but you always got the jitters about you standing in front of a big crowd. What seems to be your problem? Your problem isn't about you being nervous in front of many people in attendance, the problem roots from your failure to believe that what you speak to this large crowd is valid and true. You've been taking yourself too lightly that you fall short on acknowledging your knowledge and expertise. If you really want to see improvement in yourself, you must start believing that you have something to say and your words can move people to act accordingly.
3.The tiniest improvements matter - Even the smallest acts of improvement are worthy especially if you're able to radiate these said enhancements through simple acts. Have you tried spreading love even while you're lining up at the school cafeteria? Have you ever exude happiness even by just crossing the street? Or, have you ever experienced showing inner passion by just conversing to a person or a group of people? You see, simple acts that could be best exhibited if a commitment is made to improve oneself regardless of how simple, monotonous, and tedious the acts maybe.
by: Jeff D McQueen