Is It Normal for Men to Be a Bit Less Attracted to You After They Know You Too Well? Read This Now
Is It Normal for Men to Be a Bit Less Attracted to You After They Know You Too Well
? Read This NowIt certainly is a crazy thing but believe it or not there is more fun in the chase than actually catching the prey. So it is with most men! They chase you for the spirit of the chase and then once they've achieved success they lose interest.
Are you worth the chase?
They'll chase you till you give in and once you've given in they study you to find out if the chase has been worth it. Are you the kind of girl who is ideal for them or are you alright for just a casual friendship and nothing more.
Would he like a life time with you
In the process of getting to know you he will take into account his interest in you. Would you be the kind of girl he'd like to spend a lifetime with or you do not meet up to his expectations in the same manner as he sees a lifetime partner.
The fun of the chase is over
Once he's won you over so also is the chase over and the excitement done with. There is nothing more left to pursue or achieve and so they lose interest in you once you like them.
The spirit of pursuit and success in the effort is all that they are interested in really.
Now comes the commitments
Men are not always ready for this situation yet. Up to the point of chasing you they are in full gusto, but the when the moment of commitment comes then they turn tail and run for dear life. They fear the prospect of having chased you and because the commitments will now follow.
They lose their freedom
This is the most fearful part of the success. They feel they will be tied down for life and will lose their freedom from pursuing other girls henceforth. The spirit of hunting will be lost and so they lose their interest in you because you now like them.
The spice of life
Men are afraid that once they get committed life will become boring and they will lose out on all the fun that they could otherwise have had. They are afraid of the spice of life dying down and life becoming one endless rut.
Stagnancy in a relationship
Over the years that two people live together things become stale and stagnant. There is nothing new to know about each other and nothing exciting too remains in their lives. Their lives become dreary and repetitive and all the sunshine and excitement is gone forever. The man is not prepared for this kind of life and hence loses interest.