Is She the One?
Is She the One?
Is She the One?
"Is she the one for me, forever?" is a question most guys ask themselves at some point in a relationship.
You have been dating the girl of your dreams for some time, and you are "pretty sure" she loves you as much as you love her. But you are not quite sure. And if she does, how can you tell if she is "The One" the only woman you want to be with. Perhaps you want to know if she is the one you should marry. Now that's a huge step, and requires some very careful thought.
Here are three criteria to help you make that decision.
1. Get some honest advice from others
Does she dominate your thoughts night and day? Do you break out into a cold sweat just thinking about her? Well, that sorts you out you are definitely in love. But perhaps your love is not reciprocated by her to the same degree.
A great way to tell is to ask your best friend, a person who knows you and your girlfriend very well, to give you their advice. Ask him or her to tell you 100% honesty is required here whether they think she loves you as much as you love her. If you can get the opportunity then approach HER best friend and ask the same question. If her closest confidante wants the best for her, then you will be guaranteed honesty on this front.
2. Write a pros and cons list
It sounds a bit clinical, but this is a great tool for making all kinds of decisions in life. In this case, your list should include all kinds of things that affect your life and hers. Include the following items, and be truthful when you jot down the pluses and minuses for each category:
interests (do you have the same or similar hobbies?)
sex life (how long you have been having sex, and is the standard now as good as it was when you started?)
finances (can you afford it?)
work (will it be affected?)
plans for a future family (do you both want kids?)
political views (is there conflict?)
health and sports (is she a slob and you are an athlete?)
religion (is she Catholic and you Jewish?)
You can add other items to this list, which is by no means definitive. If there are some areas of conflict arising against some items, give them a "seriousness" rating of 1 to 10. Once you have all the information down, read it a few times and get a real picture of where your relationship stands, and where it is potentially heading: to paradise or to hell in a hand basket!
3. Does the thought of marrying her frighten you in any way?
Have you been a guy that has always had long relationships? If so, then perhaps marriage is not a worry. On the other hand, if you the type of man who has had trouble with keeping women in the past, perhaps this could be a mistake for you. If it's a concern, take the option of a very long engagement at least until you are sure. When there are no more heart palpitations associated with any thoughts of a lifetime together with your woman, then the odds are more in your favour for taking the ultimate step. When you can say to yourself that marrying your woman is the thing you want to do more than anything in the world, you are ready.
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