Just Cry If You Want To

Just Cry If You Want To

Just Cry If You Want To

Life is never a bed of roses and there will certainly be times when we get hurt and experience intense pain that we think we can never survive that phase. At that moment, you feel that the entire world seems crashing in and the pain is so unbearable that you do not know for how long you can take the excruciating hurt inside. When this happens, cry if you want to and do not hold back. Let all the pain and anguish flow from your being. Only then can you start picking up your broken self and start again.

There are many instances when we feel like crying. Physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain. It is the latter that leaves deep wounds that are not easily healed, even by time. Broken dreams, betrayal, and loss of a loved one are some of those that subject us to intense emotional pain. Whatever the reason for your pain and if you feel like crying, go ahead, cry if you want to.

If good things happen, so does bad things. There are certain things that are beyond our control and we have no other choice but to deal with them the best way we could. If you feel the helplessness seeping in, bear in mind that it is just a phase in your life that you have to hurdle to make yourself a better and stronger person. We all undergo pain and heartaches and the world and life still continue despite these. Allow yourself to grieve, cry if you want to, but do not stop there.

By allowing yourself to grieve and to cry if you want to, you can exorcise the pain from your being. Just like in Holly Cole's song, there are people, like your friends and family who love you, who will support you, and will always be there especially if you need a shoulder to cry on to. Allow yourself to grieve deeply, with no limit on the time and the buckets of tears that you shed.

Then you begin to heal. Do not let time alone heal you. Heal yourself and heal with time. Even if much time has gone by, an unhealed heart will still feel the intense pain time and again. However, do not force yourself to move in just too quickly. Give yourself time to pick up the pieces and every time you feel like crying, cry if you want to.

As they say, there is always a reason for everything. For one, even if we have experienced bad times and intense hurt, these are still opportunities for us to learn lessons and a chance for us to improve ourselves to be better individuals and to prove to the world that we are strong to withstand life's challenges. Even if you have successfully emerged from heartache, new challenges will still come your way. That is an unpleasant fact that we all need to accept and embrace.

The hallmark of being healed and being able to move is when you learn the lessons from a particular painful experience that you went through and when you apply the lessons that you have learned in your present life. We cannot erase anything in our past but we can make the most of what we have. No matter how long or how deeply you grieved, there will still be times when you feel like crying. Go ahead, cry if you want to. Remember, no person has ever drowned in his own tears.

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