Keeping the Spark in your Married Sex Life
Keeping the Spark in your Married Sex Life
I have always said that better sex, makes for a better marriage. Nonsexual touch and other signs of affection strengthens your marriage relationship, creates a comforting and calming atmosphere in your home, builds trust between the two of you, and deepens your intimacy with one another. Do not let nonsexual touch become a thing of the past in your marriage.
Touching can be extremely helpful in all kinds of ways. It was said that someone who is in tune with the power of touch could actually cause a woman or man to orgasm by touching only one square inch of their body without even going 'Down There'. This may be hard to believe but as far as medical science is concerned, it is absolutely possible.
If you and your partner are experiencing any difficulties, or just want a better marriage in areas of sexual performance and climax; touching without having actual sex can help. Sex therapists recommend this as a technique for prolonging sex and improving your relationship all around. These tips are easy to follow and simple to apply:
1. Try to explore some sexual activity without having intercourse and without making orgasm your focus or goal. Reaching an orgasm can often become the sole focus or only aim of sex in our society. This is just plain wrong and not to mention too simple.
This adds unnecessary pressure which will very likely result in performance anxiety and become an obstacle for both men and women. Sex therapists often suggest this as a positive route to take in treating performance anxiety, sexual dysfunction, intimacy issues, stress, relieving tension and all kinds of other things that can alter your relationship negatively.
2. Learning the art of non-sexual touching. Non-sexual touching again helps with performance problems by taking pressure off the focus of orgasm and performance. This also rebuilds a pathway to reconnecting with each other emotionally and mentally. It helps you to feel good about each other and more comfortable with touching. It also helps boost confidence and self esteem.
I always recommend facial touching, before during or even after sex. Usually as a result the new, more relaxed attitude that couples achieve brings more enjoyment and they can more thoroughly understand each other sexually. Sexual understanding helps to achieve heightened levels of sexual enjoyment and understanding all around.
3. The art of Message. This is where it gets more intense. Everybody loves a good message but not everyone knows how to give a good, adequate message. The thing is it can be learned like any skill. There are certain tricks to this trade that can be learned by both watching a professional message and getting one too.
Even more simple tips: Cuddle at the most important time of the day. Cuddling in the morning is even more rewarding. Why? The physical contact will keep you feeling close to each other all day. So go ahead and set the alarm five minutes early, then snuggle. You can talk, but you don't have to. The most important part is that you're holding each other. It'll help you both start the day feeling loved, and you'll feel that way all day long. You'll find, that the amount of love those small kindnesses will bring you is without limit. Read also: My Story how finally I can give my wife undeniable Explosive Orgasm (you can too)