Lack Of Intimacy In Marriage - Causes & Solutions Of Sexless Marriages
A lack of intimacy in marriage is a frustrating and relationship breaking thing
. Many sexless couples end up in shabby marriages or usually go down the messy path of divorce. This article will take into consideration some of the causes of sexless relationships and also a few ways to "cure" your sexless marriage.Roots of sexless marriage
* Resentment - In the long run you can build a wall of resentment out of all the petty details and problems in your lives. This is a block to intimacy and kills the desire for the other person. If you do not work to solve small problems but let them fester this can lead to many sexless nights in your marital bed. This is not something you want to happen to you, right?
* Complacency - Although we like being comfortable in a relationship there is a point where it becomes too much. We become too familiar with our spouse that instead of seeing them as sexual partners they seem to become like housemates or brothers or sisters. This is a bad state of over familiarity with each other.
* Body Image concerns - A lot of men and women have serious body image insecurities and do not see themselves as healthy as they used to be at the beginning of your relationship they are now old and unattractive. Women especially can feel they are not sexy enough that they lose their sense of intimacy and their libido drops to almost none. This also results from the lack of appreciation from a partner.
Sexless marriage "cures"
* Self Respect - Being confident in yourself and in what you can do, a spouse and a lover has a role to helping your sexless partner out of their routine. Tending to your own emotions and removing the bad qualities in yourself will be of great help to you in many aspect of life and most especially in being an attractive lover. Your lover will see you in the same way you see yourself.
* Communication. - If you do not talk about the problems you will never find a way to solve your lack of intimacy in marriage. Talking to one another about your relationship at a deep and personal level and not dragging into the conversation your "needs and wants" will help you reveal the problems that you can start to take action to fix. Do not let a day pass you by without talking to your partner about even the important things, and even just the things you each went through the whole day.
So if you are sick of the lack of intimacy in marriage and are in despair of looking for an end to your sexless marriage then click below to check out my site where myself and my friend Nancy tackle our sexless relationships and how we got over them which may help you overcome your same case.
by: Tony Brown