Learn what is important to you
Learn what is important to you
Learn what is important to you
Hello again my friends! I hope that you are doing well as you read this article. I know however, there is that chance that you are struggling with something in your relationship or having some sort of question to be looking for this type article. This isn't a article however, so much about breaking up as it is about staying together and improving your relationship with your partner.
As Christans we must first make sure that we have God's blessing in our relationship. I strongly suggest that you look in your bible in the concordance for the word "LOVE". Next, I suggest you look up all those verses telling you about real love. We all know the popular one in Corinthian's I am sure but, there are many others about love! The bible tells us basically that love is a wonderful gift. Faith, Hope, and Love the bible says but, says Love it the greatest of all.
From my experiences and from my bible readings I've learned that love is way more than just an emotion. Stop and think about that for a minute before continuing on. Love is more than a emotion. What do you normally think of when you think the word "Love" ? Do you think of a young couple staring into each others eyes smiling? Well, that's great but, that is showing the emotion side.Well, the bible clearly shows us that love is a commitment. Do you think of two older people rocking in rocking chairs on their front porch together? That is wonderful because it shows the commitment but, how do you get that lasting love?
Think for a few minutes of how you believe a couple can make their relationship work and still be happy. What are the most important things in a relationship? The number one thing that should be in a relationship is GOD. Why you may ask. God is love. The bible tells us this many times so, if God is love then we should look to what he says first right? Right.The bible shows us that on top of love being a commitment love is about being empathetic. If we are empathetic to another then we are considering their feelings, thoughts, hopes, dreams, and what they would want. If you are empatheic as a result you are probably going to be as Corinthians states, patient, kind,not boastful, and so forth.
So, what have we gotten thus far? God is number one and needs to be in your relationship. Two look to the bible for love advice and answers to what love really is. Three love is a commitment and therefore, is more than just the emotions. Four love involves empathy and as a result of empathy we become more as the bible tells us to be.
Another huge one in a relationship is TRUST! Trust is something that when broken takes some major repair work. Trust is essential to a healthy relationship. On the other hand there must be healthy boundaries as well. The bible sets forth boundaries for us too. For example, the bible talks about the sin of fornication(sexual things of any kind before marriage). This is a big No-No in God's words. Sex is a blessing for those who are married the bible tells us. So, we know that leaning on God(LOVE) to really be able to show Love we must be willing to be obedient to no-sex until marriage. I understand some of us have messed up in the past but, when we become saved & receive the Holy Spirit we become new. Since we are forgiven when we are saved then the past is gone is the best way to look at it. So, we know that God shows us fornication is a big No-No. We also know we must be able to trust one another. I'll go into trust more in my part two to this article. For right now we are addressing the biblical stand point of love & relationships. Since fornication is a no-no let's go ahead and address what other things that the bible tells us is a No-No.
We know that cheating is a No-No. Yes, we must TRUST our partner that they will not cheat on us. The bible tells us more about cheating, the bible tells us that lusting is cheating. What you might be saying. Well, simply put if you are thinking of another person besides a husband or wife in a "Oh baby" way or another words, a checking out way or putting even clearer a sexual way of nature by any degree in that route than you are cheating! A obvious thing to do as Christian is address what could make you lust and deal with it so that doesn't become a issue. Also, you rely on God's strength and guidance always in all things so, this would be no different. I will go further into the other things one should consider when talking about dealing with lusts and other temptations in my next article.
Please feel free to leave comments and let me know what else you'd like to hear about in future articles. I pray this has been a start to help you with improving your relationship. Take some time to sit back and take all the things said here in. Think of ways you can use God's strength and be bettered. Think of how you can be more empathetic. What can you do to improve your relationship? Is it real love? Is God in your relationship? Must you deal with a fornication problem? Have you broken trust? Are you working on building trust? Do you have a problem lusting that you must talk to God about and get it taken care of by God's strength?
Feedback is appreciated. God bless!
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