Living, Loving, and Learning: A Strategic Guide for the Almost Perfect Person

Living, Loving, and Learning: A Strategic Guide for the Almost Perfect Person

Learn to listen and respect what the other person is saying

Don't judge, ridicule, and dehumanize

Be understanding and forgiving

Be calm cool and collected

Don't jump to conclusions

No where to say "I'm sorry" and really mean it

Don't lie and cheat your way through any relationship

Be attentive to the other person's needs

Be kind and generous

Never play the blame game

Be mature and responsible or be by yourself

Never say never

Strive for understanding, harmony, and balance

Never be possessive and controlling

Stay away from possessive and controlling people

Never justify abuse; get away from it quick

Big mouths learn to shut up and listen

Know it alls learn how to humble yourselves

Never gossip and slander each other

Make each other giggle

Search for the little kid in each other

Don't try to outsmart each other

Don't smother each other

A little functional jealousy is o.k., but too much will destroy the relationship

Learn to be friends

Know when to throw in the towel and quit

Having friends is healthy, don't belittle each others friends, no matter how weird they might seem to you

Be honest about your feelings to each other

Life is short, make the best of every day

Be honest about sexual needs, never put anyone down if they are having a problem with performance; that only makes things worse

Live life to the fullest, you may not be here tomorrow

Don't take each other for granted, treasure what you have and strive to make it better and better

Be sincere in your communication, don't humor and patronize, this will only lead to separation

Don't let your families come between you; tell them to mind their own business

Don't call each other names unless they are pet names; cursing each other will only end in failure

Never act like idiots in front of the kids

Don't use the kids as pawns in your dysfunctional game; it will come back to haunt you later

Don't live beyond your means; don't run your credit cards through the roof

Save money; be financially responsible

Plan for your future now

Don't be secretive about money with each other; if you have to do that then you should not be together in the first place

Spend time with each other, quality time; go somewhere and get away from it all, and everything will still be there when you get back

Let your worries go, give them to God, seek the path of peace, understanding, and balance

Don't overindulge in anything

Put your relationship first and your kids second; this will keep you together, safe and secure

Don't try to change each other, concentrate on changing yourself and everything else will fall into place

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