Make Him Commit - What Can Make a Man Succumb
Make Him Commit - What Can Make a Man Succumb
Are you finding it impossible to get that guy to commit to you? Is it frustrating and you don't understand why you see such a bright future with him and he refuses to see it? Do you wish there was a way to make him see things your way? This article should shed some light on why he's reluctant and what you can do to sooth his fears.
Fear of losing his freedom is probably the number one concern of men. This isn't just a matter of not being able to ever date another woman. (If he isn't even at that stage yet, your relationship can be on shaky ground.) But a lot of men know about the restraints many women put on their man. They don't allow him to go out, he can't watch the games and he just plain can't have fun.
Some women even seem to simply be frustrated by the fact that her man is enjoying himself in a way that doesn't involve her.
You need to remember that this relationship isn't all about you. He's an individual and should be treated as such. And you should probably consider treating yourself as such, too. Don't drop everything for him this way you won't expect it of him because spending all your free time with him isn't the way to go.
You both need room to breathe and when he sees that you respect that, he'll relax and be more apt to give in. Seeing that you are independent will calm him further and before you know it, he's asking you to make that commitment to him.