Are you a great date, but men never seem prepared to make any kind of commitment to you? Do you wonder if you're doing something wrong to keep them from taking that important step? Do you need to learn what you can do to make a man want to make that ultimate commitment? There are a few things that every woman should remember when she becomes involved with a man.
Don't Set Your Looks Aside
Putting a face on and dressing adequately doesn't come easy for all women. For some it's a chore. So once they've met that great guy and they have him within their reach, they stop putting an effort into how they look. It's normal to relax the beauty regime a bit, but don't set it aside completely. Your guy still wants to see you looking great a little sexy every once in a while doesn't hurt either.
Don't Expect Him to Bend to Your Control
The switch that brings a woman to put on her sweetest disposition as she tries to get a guy can be very quickly set to control freak once she gets him. But this can also lead to a quick break up. Have you already begun telling him what to do and how? Sure, you might think you're doing him a favor helping him out. Chances are he doesn't see it that way. Give him a break.
Just because he's your man doesn't mean that he should have to set aside everything that has always been important to him. If you've fallen in love with him, respect him for who he is.
Don't Cling to Him to Change His Mind
Whether you're starting a relationship or it's already well established, you need to always have a life of your own. This is key to keeping you happy, but also to avoid leaving him feeling crowded by your constant presence. Just as much as you need to feel fulfilled doing what you love, he needs time to breathe.
And seeing that you're independent will rid him of the fear that you might suffocate him. It'll also make him miss you. And when he realizes that his days are brighter and funner when you're around, he'll make that commitment to you.
