Marriage Ceremonies- A Life Changing Journey
Marriage is a phase, in which the bride or the groom
, both goes through many changes. A lot of feelings overshadow their daily routines, sometimes one feels happy for starting a new life, while sometimes, thoughts of leaving our maternal home upsets our mind. Marriage is the biggest alliance, one gets into in his lifetime. This is the stage, where the person suddenly starts realising himself as a grown man, and everybody starts lecturing him for the things to be taken care of, in his future life. Every relative or friend, is found giving hundreds of advices, to the bride and the groom, whether its an Indian marriage or a marriage in a foreign land.
Though marriage ceremonies in all consumes only few days, but the arrangements and the after effects of the marriage continues for months and years. It is a ritual, for which the preparations starts from the time of the birth of the child. Whether its a girl or a boy, marriage is a big responsibility for families of both the sides. In case of a girl, the ornaments and the presents to be gifted in their daughters marriage, start getting purchased by the family members, from the early days of the birth of their child. Marriages in India are a grand affair for sure, with the execution of a lot of rituals and ceremonies in the wedding procedure, which marks the traditional culture of the country.
Marriage ceremonies can also be called as a journey, which both the bride and groom cover from their single hood to being married or committed. A lot of changes are observed in the lifestyles of the couple. Its not only, the house or the home that changes for the bride after marriage, but its the whole family or the whole living style of the person that gets transformed. The habits, likes, dislikes, hobbies, daily practises, speech, mannerism, all needs to be adopted and implemented according to the cultures and practises followed in the house of the in- laws.
The bride or the groom both needs to be very conscious, about their presentations and behaviour in front of the prospective family and relatives. Not only at the time of the marriage, but also after the marriage, somehow, the originality or the perseverance of the person gets changed, and suddenly the bubbly girl becomes a descent and well mannered daughter- in- law, who is supposed to be the pride of the family. The tag of being married, is in itself is a great responsibility, which forces the bride or the groom to be very elegant and intellectual in their behaviour and clothing style. The dressing sense of the married couple undergoes a lot of changes. It marks their transformation from the bachelorhood to a married man or woman. The different add- on to the woman attire like choora, sindur, make- up, jewellery are the elements, which help in differentiating a wed man or woman from a single girl or guy.
Other than the change in the lifestyle or the dressing sense of the married couple, a sense of responsibility is also felt by the person, which urges him to think and act more maturely. Family issues and matters, tend to be of more significance and importance to the married couple. also, the decisions taken about the life or any other change in the profession or the daily habits needs to be discussed with the life partner, because any decision, whether small or big, can lead to great consequences and repercussions in the future, and to decrease the possibility of such incidences, it is better that a discussion is done within the couple to avoid future blame games.
Few useful links:
http://www.jeevansathi.com/
http://www.jeevansathi.com/matrimonial-matrimony-gender-bride-matrimonials
by: Gurleen Kaur
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