Marriages Tanked By Money Problems
Jordan and Jennifer were living high
Jordan and Jennifer were living high. Their parents warned them that if they didn't stop, they would suffer severe consequences and their marriage would be in danger.
Essentially telling their two Dads and two Moms to mind their own business, Jordan and Jennifer joyfully refused to change their habits. They went on expensive vacations, bought new furniture on a continual basis, and supplied their kids with designer clothes and every conceivable game and toy available. Furthermore, the couple helped anyone else in financial trouble, trying to appear rich and generous.
It took awhile before their four parents realized that they were being lied to - and that the money they kept supplying for "emergencies" was merely going to buying more stuff. Soon, they shut off all funds and declined to give Jordan and Jennifer any more funds. "Sorry," they said, "the home bank is closed."
So why did this couple believe they could spend, spend, spend and never have to account for it? Their confidence came from Jordan's six figure income and yearly bonuses. Jennifer also worked, and although she brought home only a third of Jordan's income, it was enough to put them well on top of most in the nation. The problem? No matter what they brought home, they spent far more.
As the noose began to tighten, they blamed their parents and each other. The blaming dissolved into bitter fighting between this husband and wife. About the time they had to take out a third mortgage on their home in order to meet even the most basic of their debts, they realized that their marriage wasn't going to make it. They both wanted out. The children, bewildered and dismayed, watched as their world began to dissolve around them.
As the noose began to tighten, they blamed their parents and each other. The blaming dissolved into bitter arguing between this husband and wife. About the time they had to take out a third mortgage on their home in order to meet even the most basic of their debts, they realized that their marriage wasn't going to make it. They both wanted out. The children, bewildered and dismayed, observed as their world began to dissolve around them.
Recently we heard a pastor ask for anyone who needed prayer to speak up. Two people - from two different families - wanted prayer regarding their over-spending habits and the difficulty that had resulted. If you feel as if you have ticking bombs just outside your door that might blow your finances, home and marriage to pieces, take steps now to stop the carnage before it takes place. Do any of the following sound like you?
- You've used up most or all of your money and resources.
- You've exhausted most or all of your money and resources.
- Your home is in foreclosure, or you are months behind in payments.
- Your credit is in the tank
- You hold responsible God, the government, your parents, your spouse, anyone but yourself.
- You blame God, the government, your parents, your spouse, anyone but yourself.
- Your marriage is in trouble.
Or maybe your problem is painted a bit in a different way. If the bomb has already gone off, there still is much you can do. We have a lot of suggestions regarding your finances that work for men and for women at Love Relationship Headquarters, save your marriage site.
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Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com
by: Dr. Vance Hardisty.
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