Married Women And The Relationship Mistakes They Make

Mistakes are going to be made in every relationship whether its while dating

, during marriage or friendship. How we handle these mistakes can go a long way in preventing a small misunderstanding from escalating into a full blown argument. It doesnt matter if youre a man or woman, mistakes happen - but there seems to be certain mistakes that are more common to one gender than the other.

Many of the same mistakes are made by both husband and wife but because of the differing emotional makeup of men and women some are more frequent to one than the other. Studies have revealed that women feel a more emotional connection to the mistake/problem at hand and tend to take it more seriously.

Men on the other hand would rather withdraw and let time heal the misunderstanding. He feels if the problem is ignored it will go away. Perhaps this goes back to the old belief that men are tough and its not a manly thing to delve into emotional issues.

Okay, we agree that mistakes are made on both sides of a marriage; but now lets point a finger at those mistakes more typically made by women. The first thing a marriage councilor will tell you is that communicating is foremost in maintaining a good relationship. So is timing.

If the husband comes home after a hard days work and you immediately hit him with a problem before hes had time to get comfortable in his castle, you may not get the response you desire. The same goes for television viewing. At least wait for the commercial to spring a problem on him, especially if his favorite team is behind with only a minute left to play.

Sorry ladies, but youre more likely to criticize than men. When confronting your husband ask yourself if youre criticizing and giving advice or if youre genuinely seeking a solution.

Criticizing can turn into nagging and then youve really got a problem in getting cooperation from your husband. If youve made it clear what you want and what needs to be done, constant nagging is not going to get it done any sooner. Demands are a no-no. Remain sweet, gentle and pleasantly persuasive.

And, it must be said: dont use sex as a weapon. This could actually turn into a dispute and that puts an end to negotiations. A faithful husband will, as he should, come to you for intimacy. If hes refused because he failed to give in to your demands, he feels hurt and vulnerable. This is a power you have over him he doesnt like to be reminded of. Besides, many battles have been won in the bedroom.

by: Dennis Leese

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