It might sound a bit hard edged but all marriages hit a point where one or both partners
have a time where they feel like they can't continue in the marriage. Although the relationship may be loving there can be marriage issues or some circumstance that has provided a space between the partners.
Maintaining a marriage for a long time is an endeavor that takes some effort. After you've met a couple that has been together for forty or fifty years, it doesn't necessarily mean they were all happy all those years. Along the way there have been issues, doubts and insecurities, but no matter what problems arose they managed to work through it and maintain their marriage.
A marriage that lasts for a long time means that their will be a need to have some determination but you will have conflicts, confusion and doubts. Staying committed and continuing the marriage can be tough, but you need to stay with it, even if you have to fake the love until it actually returns to you.
Love is not just a feeling but a conscious decision to commit to another person come what may. It may not always be special but hanging on through the difficult times will make you a stronger couple and will provide you with companionship that lasts a lifetime. There will always be challenges to face but facing them together will make your marriage stronger and will provide you with more satisfaction then you ever dreamed possible.
If it seems to you that the marriage may be ending or you think you may be with the wrong person try to hold on to the commitment for a while longer. It may be that your marriage has a new beginning during these difficult times while you are faking it until you make it again. Just carry on and follow through with the commitment you made.