My Husband Cheated On Me - How to Survive His Unfaithfulness When Despair Is All You See

My Husband Cheated On Me - How to Survive His Unfaithfulness When Despair Is All You See

If your husband just cheated on you, then I'm guessing that the idea of forgiveness doesn't look too appealing right now.

My guess is that your husband's affair has you reeling, questioning whether or not you'll ever truly be able to trust him or what your marriage means to him again.

As you continue reading I'm going to be sharing with you what I think are by far the most important and powerful tips to regain the trust in your marriage.

#1. Right Now You Have Questions About The Affair

First, I know that right now the most pressing thing on your mind is going to be the QUESTIONS that you have for your husband. I'm guessing that in the back of your mind you know that several of these questions are better left unanswered, so this is what I'm going to recommend you do:

Find a way (preferably by working with your husband) to put a barrier around either how many questions you can ask or about how much information you should be allowed to learn about the affair.

You may even, for the time being, want to simply trust your husband's judgment on what you should be allowed to know. Or possibly another choice would be to say that you can't ask any questions until at least 2 weeks has gone by.

#2. By Working Together You Can Increase Your Odds of Coming Through

Going back to the example that I cited above, obviously for you to have to work with your husband in this way regarding how much you should know about the affair would serve the double purpose of helping you two to rebuild your marriage.

Not only would you two be formulating a structure for you to learn about the affair, but you'll be working together towards a goal that helps further your marriage. You and your husband will be forced to collate with each other side by side in a way that's mutually beneficial.

By working towards a common goal - deciding how much you should know about the affair - you can begin to see what it's like to truly communicate with each other again.

#3. Fight Through the Challenge of Rebuilding Communication

When you and your husband first try to begin communications again, chances are that you find it not only difficult, but emotionally trying as well. You probably become angry or depressed or jealous or a combination of the three.

The fact of the matter is that right after the affair, and indeed maybe even longer, you're going to face challenges when dealing with your husband and his communication.

Talking to him will be difficult, but listening to him will likely be even harder. Unfortunately there's not a whole lot you can do about it other than suck it up and deal with it.

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