My Wife Is A Good Person - How Could She Cheat On Me?

You married the woman of your dreams

You married the woman of your dreams. You love so many things about her. One of the things you love most about her is the fact that she is such a good person - to the core. But now you've just found out that she cheated on you and it has shaken your faith in her and your belief in her goodness to its foundation.

How Could Your Wife Cheat if She's a Good Person?

Well here's the scoop of the century. Good people mess up. They do bad things on occasion. Many of them pay a hefty price not only in the way others see them and the consequences of their actions but also in the way they see themselves in the mirror. Good people have a much harder time living with their mistakes than many people give them credit for.

Does this mean she should get off without paying any consequences for her cheating? No. That's not what I'm saying at all. There should be consequences but those consequences do not need to be your marriage unless you are sure you can't make things work out now that you know the truth about her cheating.

How Could She Have Done It?

There are many reasons women cheat and very few of them are the first that come to mind for the average husband who has just been cheated on.

The following are some of the reasons why women cheated:

1)Needs that are not provided at home without losing their family. In reality, women have needs. There are those which are easily identifiable and said, but there are those which are right through the surface. She may not have any idea about those but when time comes that another guys would come along and promises to provide for those needs she will encounter difficulty in resisting.

2)She feels unappreciated at home. This is especially common among women who are housewives and stay at home mothers. They feel as though no one fully appreciates their contributions and sacrifices. Another man comes along and really notices the little things she does and she is putty in his hands.

3)The feeling of being alone. She loves you truly but you seem to be full of work and you left her alone in own devices or in the presence of children, pets or simply the four walls of your building. She would have traded all she had just to be with you only thing is that you are to busy to attend to her. It matters not that you have been sacrificing all that for her. What's important to her is your presence each time she needs you to be just there.

Of course, it does not necessarily mean that her cheating is your fault. She is aware of the risk and she knew it wasn't right also. But that does not put away the fact that there are mitigating circumstances - even if they all exist in her head alone - that would make cheating possible.

by: T Dub Jackson..

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