There are many things that cheating is about. The odds are good that your cheating wife has little to do with sex and more to do with what happens outside the bedroom. Stop thinking my wife is cheating because she doesn't enjoy the sex at home and start working on a real solution to the problems leading to her infidelity.
Sex and Cheating from the Female Perspective
For women cheating is often about meeting emotional needs rather than igniting or putting out physical fires that aren't being tended at home. Women and men see sex from different points of view. Share:
Don't make the mistake of thinking that she would be tempted to have an affair for the same, or even similar, reasons that would prove tempting for you.
Too many men make the same mistake and wind up overlooking the forest because of all the trees.
Why do Women Cheat?
Women cheat for many reasons. Most of the more common reasons women cheat are not the ones that immediately leap to the minds of the average men.
These are some of the reasons women frequently cite for their infidelity:
She feels lonely.
She thinks she's being neglected.
She is lonely.
She feels taken for granted.
The other man makes her feel wanted.
She believes she's not first in her husband's life.
She no longer feels important to her husband.
He makes her feel beautiful.
He appreciates what she brings to the equation.
The reasons may not seem earth shattering to you but they matter, a lot to her. The thing is you have to get inside her head and find out why she's cheating if you want to figure out what you need to do to get your relationship back on track.
Making things Right when My Wife is Cheating
Is it possible to make things right when your wife is cheating on you? You better believe you can. I can help show you what you need to do to win back her heart and make sure there's only room for you this time around.
Here are a few things you can do that will make your wife happier at home with you than ever before. They will also make other men evaporate from her sight.
Stop comparing her to your mother.
Recognize what she does for you and your family acknowledge those things.
Show your appreciation for her efforts, large and small, to take care of you from day to day.
Admit you're wrong once in a while and allow her to have a few small victories along the way.
Stop fighting to win the argument and learn to fight to save your relationship.